This the first time with wedding related stuff that I'm getting a little annoyed. So my fiance and I have some of the major wedding stuff done like venue, photographer, music, we're meeting with caterers next month but the one big thing that I would like to get done soon is getting an officiant. All of our wedding planning is being done long distance since we live about 5 hours away from where we're getting married (we're getting married closer to where both of us are from since our families are there). Most of our stuff that requires meeting with people will be done when taking trips back home visiting family.
So here is where I'm getting a little annoyed. My fiance wants to use his pastor from the church where he went a little when he was younger and where is mom still goes. His mom had talked to the pastor a while ago about possibly doing our wedding but nothing has been mentioned other than that. We're going to be visiting our family again in a couple weeks and during that time we're meeting with a caterer and I would like to meet with my fiance's pastor to discuss with him more about doing our wedding. When I bring it up to my fiance about either contacting the pastor or his mother to set up a meeting with him he won't do it. He says we are already doing a lot the weekend we are going down and won't have time. We aren't doing that much and this in one big thing I would like to check off our list of things to do. The next time we're going to be visiting our family again won't be until October. I've never met his pastor before and I would just like to meet him to make sure we all get along and everything but my fiance just doesn't seem up for setting anything up with him so I can get to know him a little more. I just think that waiting until October is too long to wait to hire an officiant since our wedding is in June and things like that get booked up fast. I just don't get why he won't just schedule a meeting, I would just feel weird doing it myself since I have never met the pastor before. Thanks for listening, sorry it's a little long.