Aww so per my last post I called the 16 yr old and his sister (who will be 14) and asked them to be in the wedding. I have known these kids for 12 years as I started babysitting for them when I was 16! They have become such a part of my life and are like family. I wanted them to play a role not only because I love them dearly but because it was their dad who set FI and I up on a blind date when FI was working for his company
I went ahead and decided on having him usher and pass out programs (I would have made him a GM but FI just has way too many close friends, Im already trying to keep up!), and she will be a bridesmaid (shes young but im ok with that, shes my bud!). They were both over the moon ecxited about being a part of the wedding
I think Im more excited about the decision to make them part of the wedding than anyone else in the party. Though I love everyone else dearly too, they were all kind of a given hehe!