June 2012 Weddings

FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper!

Ok so I finished my paper on how undervalued warthogs really are, and how they can be utilized in society and such.  That means I can update you on the FMIL DILEMMA!

Ok so for those of you who don't know, FMIL was being a complete HAG and demanded she wear one of her 32 pairs of WHITE shape up sketcher shoes to the wedding! What the shiit is that?!?

Anyways. I fed their dog I hate the shoes, some of you agreed with my decision, others did not.  Whatever, what's done is done.  

So she's trying to get back at me since I like, almost killed their dog. (Technically it's FBIL's dog, but that makes me care even less because I hate him because one time he smelled like fig newtons.  Who says that?!)

Anyways she said she felt bad about the white and that they were sneakers so she got nude heels. NUDE?! That's like, MY NEW THING! I'm the ONLY one who is allowed to wear nude, ever! Like what was she thinking?! FI thinks she was trying to be nice, and that I'm super overreacting, but I think she chose nude on PURPOSE to spite me!!!!!!!

I'm so close to just kicking her out of the wedding party.  She is a terrible MOH. I totally did not think that one through.  

Re: FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper!

  • Your FMIL is your MOH? WTF?
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_fmil-update-finished-my-paper?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:7dd401e0-16c8-4aad-94d3-94953b75202fPost:28dfda95-ee52-475c-a5ff-5b96e1c8c69c">Re: FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Your FMIL is your MOH? WTF?
    Posted by kristin183[/QUOTE]

    <div>Kind of....FI has mommy issues so he wanted her and I was like hell no you cannot have a woman on your side! So I allowed her on my side.  I have two other MOHs though, I call them my "real" MOHs/</div>
  • edited May 2012
    Not trying to be mean... but this sounds like a very screwed up family.
    Are you sure you wanna marry a Mama's boy?  Seems like she is trying to compete with you.
  • FI is perfect, he just loves his mom SHEESH!

    She can't compete with me. I'm way out of her league. 
  • Simply select her outfit. Don't give her a choice. Its YOUR wedding, she should not try to outshine you!

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  • If she is a MOH then she is part of the bridal party, tell her that the bridal party is only allowed to wear a certain color and nude ain't one of them. If she still insists on wearing nude then let her, you are the boss not her. You can still wear your nude shoes because it's your wedding just make sure the photographer only photographs your feet. If you feel she is doing this on purpose let her know you are bleach you can't be faded!!! Meaning let her behavior roll off your shoulders. You are too great of a person to take time out of your day to entertain simple minded people. 
  • The Golden Rule ("Treat others as you wish to be treated") works well for this kind of situation.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_fmil-update-finished-my-paper?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:7dd401e0-16c8-4aad-94d3-94953b75202fPost:28dfda95-ee52-475c-a5ff-5b96e1c8c69c">Re: FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Your FMIL is your MOH? WTF?
    Posted by kristin183[/QUOTE]

    <font face="Verdana" size="4">This is an excellent time for you to become a missing person.</font>
  • You're cray-cray!
    A+K
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    "Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire."
    --St. Catherine of Siena
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_fmil-update-finished-my-paper?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:7dd401e0-16c8-4aad-94d3-94953b75202fPost:c14928d0-b1a7-4134-b519-37c0c01d288a">Re: FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper!</a>:
    [QUOTE]You're cray-cray!
    Posted by AlliJae[/QUOTE]

    <div>And you are quite intuitive. </div>
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_fmil-update-finished-my-paper?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:7dd401e0-16c8-4aad-94d3-94953b75202fPost:d848a44a-8125-4aa1-aeb9-d759e19da19d">Re: FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FMIL UPDATE: Finished my paper! : This is an excellent time for you to become a missing person.
    Posted by megbo2013[/QUOTE]

    LOL.. I just got bored.
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