My wedding is next month and I lost my reception space today.

mbishop7

You'll never believe what happened today. You might remember that my venue changed randomly because the original space where we had booked had become "unsafe to serve food in". We were moved to a different space that the Hospitality company had, and although not as nice as the first space, it would do. They gave us a big discount.

My mom has been trying to get ahold of anyone with the company of my reception space for the past two weeks, with no replies to e-mail or phone calls. Today, someone answers.The owner was not there (surprise). But the lady informed my mom that they were closing. Tomorrow. My wedding is next month. Are you F&*$king kidding me?! I am beyond mad. I just broke down in tears when my mom called me. I don't know what they talked about with our deposit, but I know my mom chewed whoever she talked to out hardcore.

 So then my mom called a nice hotel nearby, a place we had originally looked at and their ballroom is open. Nothing like I originally wanted (big ballroom, big tables) but it looks like it's just going to have to do. My mom met with their event coordinator and she was really sympathetic about what happened and said they would help us in every way they could, even helping with prices. 

 I'm so upset, broken, frustrated, mad. How can vendors be like this?!   

melntaitt

((((((BIG BIG HUGS))))))

Did they give you your deposit or anything back? I hope you get what you put into it back out...

And regardless of where your wedding will be held, you will have a beautiful, successful start to your life with you new DH. I wish I coud do or say more but this just really sucks.

Do you have a pic of your new space?

mbishop7

I don't have one of the old one, the VERY original one was gorgeous. Absolutely stunning and was why we booked it even though it was over budget. I'm not sure what my mom talked to her about budget. My mom wanted me to know though that her and my dad were going to get it taken care of and not to worry (meaning book the hotel). It's even more expensive than the first place. Plates are like $30 a head. 

The place my mom talked to today, the hotel, is just a typical hotel ballroom with big tables. It's not that it's bad.. it's just.. typical. I don't have pictures though..

caitlintaylor07

What kind of space were you looking for? Have you checked your local board? I am a photographer and I also STALK other photographer's blogs because I wanted a 'different' and not 'typical' reception. Most photographers list the venue in the post. I came up with a restaurant that I would have NEVER thought of- way under budget and fits PERFECTLY with my theme.

Nindakay

Awe....I'm so sorry!!

MoonlightSilver

I'm so sorry this happened! 

Have you considered contacting a local news station? If you tell them your story about losing your venue not once but twice, perhaps they'll air it and someone will step up and offer a great venue? I know it's a reeeeeeally big reach, but anything that might help....

I'm glad you have the hotel, even if it's not what you wanted. At least there is somewhere to go! 

Danidawn20

I'm really sorry this happened. I hope the place gave you your deposit back, becuase what they did was horrible. 

littleluckypenny

I'm so sorry (hugs).

It'll all work out, and your wedding will be great!  

DrPB2b13

That is HORRIBLE!  My heart hurt for you when your first venue didn't work out, and honestly I have to wonder if losing that venue alone hurt their business enough that they weren't able to stay afloat financially.

I ditto the local board - and check with your other vendors, too!  Your photorapher might know some good spots, or even your DJ.  They really do get to see all of the venues in the local area, and as such they could also have good relationships with some coordinators and be able to hook you up.

Good luck - at the very least, even if the hotel isn't what you wanted, you won't have to move the wedding date to accommodate this.  T&Ps for you, keep us updated!

abunger

Ugh, that totally sucks!  I'm so sorry .... how stressful (and shame on the venue).  I'm glad to hear that there is another venue available and that they are willing to work with you.

midgetthemighty

I am so sorry! *massive hugs*

Just remember that the most important part of the day is that you'll be marrying your best friend. Nothing will be typical about that day!

chelseakopperud

I am so so sorry!

Kfudge0714

WOW!! I am so sorry you are going through this! You would think that they would have known for quite some time that they were closing and they could have at least called to let Brides know so they could start looking for a new place sooner rather than later!

The hotel might not be what you want now but it will be beautiful no matter what!

Best of Luck to you and keep us posted!

*HUGS*

kjmehrer

So Sorry - we had a similiar thing happen.  Recieved a letter in the mail four months prior to our upcoming June wedding that our venue had gone out of business.  Taking them to small claims to try and get our deposit back.  Luckily, we found something else quickly but its not as convienent as the original.  Hope every thing works out for you! 

daria24

I'm so sorry! I remember your post about getting switched to the second venue-I know it's a lot of stress but I'm glad that you will be working with a different vendor. This one clearly is a shiity shiity business.

And I would totally second the recommendation to go to your local media outlet. Local News loves those kinds of stories and the exposure could really help you!

Purple&7

That's terrible! I'm so sorry! I glad you did find something else though.

julianahenao881

OMG so sorry .....hope everything works out with the new venue (HUGS)

kelsey+brandon

That so sucks!!!! I hope you let out a good scream to at least relieve some of this annoyance. I honestly would be so upset if this happened to us. I hope it all works out and that you'll be able to bring your own vision into the hotel if that's where y'all end up going with.

janeash

Ugh what a mess!!!  Hugs to you!! Keep us posted on how everything works out!!

tigurlily

oh no!  i'd be so upset.
at least you were able to find another space that will work for you though.

i was super afraid that my venue (a hotel ballroom) was going to do that to me when i booked over a year ago... i had heard rumors that the hotel wasn't doing well financially.  but they seem to be hanging in there so far.... as long as they make it thru june, i'm ok, lol.

UKgal321

Bless your heart!  I can't imagine the amount of stress you feel.  Your mother sounds like a wonderful lady!  Thank your lucky stars you have a strong woman like that in your life to take care of this for you.  

I agree with the other posts about contacting your local news channel or newspaper.  Also, check with the contract you signed with the old reception local.  You may be able to get your deposit back!