Nervous Nelly Wednesday

peachykeen26 · May 2012

Instead of posting TONS of posts, I thought we could just post all of the things we are nervous/scared of on here.
It can also be a "vent" thread.
Just let it out!

Ash61612 · May 2012

I wish the cold I have would go away. It is making me feel miserable and tired all the time. I need my energy to finish up the few projects I have left (finish bouts for ushers, assign tables, do escort cards)

peachykeen26 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:26f83ad8-67e1-4b3e-bc65-35585ec04f51">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I wish the cold I have would go away. It is making me feel miserable and tired all the time. I need my energy to finish up the few projects I have left (finish bouts for ushers, assign tables, do escort cards)
Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]

AHH! How awful. Praying that it goes away!!

Danidawn20 · May 2012

I wish I could sleep, that I didn't have a pimple, and that everything will be done by friday- It should be.

peachykeen26 · May 2012

I am trying to get a final head count as RSVP's are coming up close to a week overdue. I just need to know for the florist. And it's driving me nuts.
I still haven't heard from the Etsy vendor to cancel my order.
It is DRIVING ME NUTS!

ETA:
I just decided to contact PayPal about it to try to disbute it. So, we will see.

Lambbop · May 2012

I am terrified about my FMIL's erratic behavior. She goes from normal to BSC at the drop of a hat and I am just hoping she can keep it together for the wedding. She gets here today... and I just don't even want to see her. She stresses me out soooo much.

peachykeen26 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:469f0c96-c0cf-4803-b8db-4831fe393c45">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I am terrified about my FMIL's erratic behavior. She goes from normal to BSC at the drop of a hat and I am just hoping she can keep it together for the wedding. She gets here today... and I just don't even want to see her. She stresses me out soooo much.
Posted by Lambbop[/QUOTE]

Ugh. I'm sorry. That's cray-cray.
Deep breaths and just remember that everything she does reflects poorly on her, not you.

Lambbop · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:417ca09f-cb0a-43ba-8b43-2ca11ffc0cb7">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday : Ugh. I'm sorry. That's cray-cray. Deep breaths and just remember that everything she does reflects poorly on her, not you.
Posted by peachykeen26[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I just feel bad. She has a lot of emotional/psychological issues and doesn't deal with them. So... it's hard. I feel bad for her, but understand it's a condition. I just don't want her to embarass herself or my FI. Hoping for the best!

leighcd · May 2012

I am stressing about anything and everything. Most recently my internal debate has been over what color nail polish to wear. It's the big things that matter

kelsey+brandon · May 2012

I know I still have 31 days, but I'm kind of scared my dad and his girlfriend will behave at our wedding like they did at my cousins. First of all, his new GF that everyone was meeting for the first time got up on stage and was dancing BY HERSELF. Then they were making out on the dance floor and she was ripping his jacket off like a strip tease.
M.O.R.T.I.F.Y.I.N.G.

MoonlightSilver · May 2012

My wedding isn't for weeks yet and I couldn't sleep last night! On top of stress about the wedding I am unemployeed and applying for jobs. I applied for my dream job, but they haven't gotten back to me. I also applied for a job I think I'll do horrible at, but I really need the money and maybe I should take it? Ugh.

amandaf6383 · May 2012

I'm nervous that my overbearing (loving and trying to be helpful but OVERBEARING) mother is going to give herself a nervous breakdown before the 16th!!! I'm trying to be calm but it's hard when she calls me freaking out a million times a day!!!

I'm also nervous about crying. I don't want to be a blubbering mess but I can't even think about walking down the aisle without crying!!

flipflop82 · May 2012

We just found out that my sister's husband might not be able to make the trip to the wedding (DW in the Virgin Islands). He cleared the time off with his work and school months ago, but just found out that his final test is scheduled for the day of the wedding. He's working on getting permission to take it another time. It's an apprentice-ship, union school thing...I don't really understand how it works. We're all hopeful. I know my sister will come without him, but she won't have as much fun and will mope, which will bring everyone else down. AND they may not get a refund for his flight, which makes me sad for them since they don't have that much money to just throw around.

Also, my mom is chronically late everywhere she goes and refuses to take responsibility for it. I know it's going to stress me out the morning of. I'm thinking about asking my other sister to be in charge of keeping my mom in line.

Ash61612 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:d7324e90-97ac-4f3d-ae60-1d6d47278bc6">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I am trying to get a final head count as RSVP's are coming up close to a week overdue. I just need to know for the florist. And it's driving me nuts. <strong>I still haven't heard from the Etsy vendor to cancel my order.</strong> It is DRIVING ME NUTS! ETA: I just decided to contact PayPal about it to try to disbute it. So, we will see.
Posted by peachykeen26[/QUOTE]

<div>what are you trying to cancel?</div>

michellep1 · May 2012

I think the better question for me is "what are you NOT nervous about?"

Answer: Nail polish color. I picked it out months ago!

peachykeen26 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:b9df38a5-4dec-4b5d-be2c-1ae2f5d6cad0">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday : what are you trying to cancel?
Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]

a Hanger that was ordered over a month ago.

ETA:
FINALLY heard from her! Order is cancelled. I feel terrible, she had a family emergency. :(

2012FutureMrsB · May 2012

I'm irritated that FMIL told FI to check in with her when we leave for our HM. I'm sorry, but no, he's a grown man and doesn't need to check in with you. He will be with his WIFE and will be checking in with her

Note: it's probably not THAT big of a deal, but it just really bugs me.

peachykeen26 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:a0d60714-ed4d-4c74-a80a-13b8078e28df">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm irritated that FMIL told FI to check in with her when we leave for our HM. I'm sorry, but no, he's a grown man and doesn't need to check in with you. He will be with his WIFE and will be checking in with her :) Note: it's probably not THAT big of a deal, but it just really bugs me.
Posted by 2012FutureMrsB[/QUOTE]

Eh, I would let this go. She just wants to make sure you guys stay alive and well. Can't blame her for making sure you're okay.

CvilleClaire · May 2012

I'm worried about how I'll hold up in these last two days. I thought I was doing just fine, but I just fainted and had a convulsion at the manicurist's. I'm assuming it was low blood sugar. When I'm stressed, I don't eat and I clearly need to eat!

brittneyh4 · May 2012

I'm nervous about everything. I'm a control freak worry wart by nature, and these two qualities are never a good combo.

Today is my birthday and FMIL is taking FI and I out to dinner.. which I know will include lots of frustrating wedding and kid conversation (she thinks we need to have kids yesterday, and told everyone at my bridal shower I don't want kids.. uh, wrong and she knows it. I want them, but I want to at least be married first).

janeash · May 2012

I am kinda freaking out about our venue. We originally booked space for 35 and a month ago, we had 34 confirmed, at which point the coordinator said we should book into the larger space (for 70 people) otherwise we would be really cramped. This increased our min. spend, but we said ok. Now, 22 days before the wedding, we are finding out 4 people might be dropping out. Which means not only will we have 30 people in a space for 70 (which will look stupid), but we will also have absolutely no possibility of reaching our minimum spend. Which is basically just wasted money....we should have stayed with the smaller space.

SO I am worried that it will look stupid and that we won't be able to make the minimum spend.

tgerl · May 2012

I'm sorry Kelsey - hopefully your Dad will do a better job of monitoring her at his daughter's wedding!

I was feeling really frazzled yesterday, but had long conversations with our flower person (love her!), the venue, and also setup a time to meet with DJ to go over everything. I'm feeling back in control again.

The most annoying thing right now is FI. He told me this morning that he is really stressed about everything that needs to be done before the wedding. How is he stressed, I am taking care of everything!!!

MMRoberts11 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:26f83ad8-67e1-4b3e-bc65-35585ec04f51">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I wish the cold I have would go away. It is making me feel miserable and tired all the time. I need my energy to finish up the few projects I have left (finish bouts for ushers, assign tables, do escort cards)
Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]

Me too! I keep coughing so much and get so tired so easily. My boss thought I may pass out after I walked up one flight of stairs earlier because I started coughing so bad. He then made me go get an exam to make sure I was ok to work the rest of the day and not pass out or suffer exhaustion. Really, I just cough and have to blow my nose often and so all the gunk (sorry, potential TMI) makes me tired.

Ash61612 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:c534605c-7f8a-4197-910b-bf1ec59d9ba9">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm worried about how I'll hold up in these last two days. I thought I was doing just fine, but I just fainted and had a convulsion at the manicurist's. I'm assuming it was low blood sugar. When I'm stressed, I don't eat and I clearly need to eat!
Posted by CvilleClaire[/QUOTE]

that's scary!! take care of yourself

peachykeen26 · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_nervous-nelly-wednesday?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:8bd9aac5-1b21-4049-bed1-fc719773a48bPost:c534605c-7f8a-4197-910b-bf1ec59d9ba9">Re: Nervous Nelly Wednesday</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm worried about how I'll hold up in these last two days. I thought I was doing just fine, but I just fainted and had a convulsion at the manicurist's. I'm assuming it was low blood sugar. When I'm stressed, I don't eat and I clearly need to eat!
Posted by CvilleClaire[/QUOTE]

Oh gosh girl!!!!! Praying for you!

HilareyL · May 2012

I'm also worried about everything- nail polish color actually has kept me up at night- I would like to have light pink for the wedding, but we're going on a European honeymoon right afterwards and I would like something brighter for my sundresses.

Also our cruise itinerary changed and the travel agent got our dates wrong. Now we're getting into the final port three days earlier than expected. I'm trying to sort it out and was on hold for 45 minutes this morning. I'm waiting for the supervisor to call me back to see how they're going to fix it.

My florist/wedding planner is not getting back to me and in the last email she had my order completely wrong- thought my flowers were supposed to be blush and white, when they are supposed to be white with lavender and greenery- no blush! She obviously didn't keep the notes she took at our meeting. And she hasn't gone over to the rain date venue to look at it yet in case we're over there. My dad is no help- he just says- "it will work out" when I try to vent to him.

Nshivers · May 2012

Like some of you have stated: I'm concerned about the way FI's mom will act towards her ex-husband (FI's dad) and his wife. The last time they were all in the same room a fight broke out. (sigh)

abbitha7 · May 2012

I'm nervous that I will cry. I'm not a crier, but I have been getting teary about everything this week, so I'm hoping that it's all out by the 23rd.

AbeandCarrie · May 2012

My sister/MOH just found out she has hand foot and mouth disease. I feel so bad for her. I had it two years ago and it sucked! I guess it is just one of the dangers with working with children...