Okay. So here's the back story...
My FI proposed to me in Dec, but we have been talking about marriage for a while. I had always invisioned a white wedding in a garden or a beach and a reception in a tent or a ballroom. My FI says he likes that idea as well, but every once in a while would pop in that a destination wedding would be nice. Well, after looking at some prices of places, my boo drops the bomb that the more he thinks of it, he would love a destination wedding. Well, my first reaction was to CRY. I love him with all my heart and would do anything for him and I told him that. Seeing at how upset I was, he compromised and said the beach is kind of like a destination. I think a destination wedding would be BEAUTIFUL but I want to walk down an aisle with my family and friends watching. I know that if we do a destination wedding that won't happen. Our family coming is iffy due to prices and my friends really don't have a lot of money.
Does this make me selfish? I can't help but feel a little bad. He hasn't once said anything about it and I do feel he's okay with it. But it just replays in my head. Maybe I could surprise him with a honeymoon in the place where he wanted to get married??? Would that be fair? Idk. Help...and be honest