There was a post about a jealous bridesmaid and it made me think about something I've been going through. Since I got engaged my bff since high school has nothing but negative things to say. She is also engaged and when we compare ideas she also has something to say. It all started with the budget she asked me how much we set our budget for and I told her and since then its been a snowball effect. She calls me and my FI things like rich and she even something real snotty like she guess I'll be on Real Housewives next...wth. She always has something to say about me becoming a military wife life "Oh you will really reap the benefits of that" or "I guess you all can afford these things since your FI gets a military discount" It has really bothered me and I just stopped talking to her about the wedding. However when I talk to her she brings it up and goes on with her comments.
I have talked to my other friends about it and they have told me its just jealousy and just stop talking to her. That's easier said than done. She is a close friend but I don't see how she can have such mean things to say. My FI has made it known he does not like her and thinks I should cut it off with her because she even says little negative stuff about him like one day I told her we were playing Just Dance 2 and he was horrible at it she made the comment that he can't dance because he's part Asian wth!!! I was too through after that. Then a few days later she tells me she is depressed and that I'm so happy with my life it makes her sick. Is this chick crazy or a hater? IIn the next few months I plan to finalize my bridal party and at this point I don't want her in it. I'm not sure if I want her as a friend. It's just so much! I've had a lot of bad realtionships and it seems that now that I am happy she has something to say. It makes me think she liked it when I was miserable, unhappy, and alone. I don't know if I should tell her off and make matters worse maybe or just let her go.