I don't know what it is about wedding planning lately but I just keep having problems. Yesterday my MOH called me and told me her dress was in at David's Bridal, and that she didn't know if she would be able to pick it up within the 14 days she had to get it. I told her I would go pick it up that evening to help her out (plus I was excited to see the dress in black because the samples in the store were ivory and charcoal). I live an hour away from David's and an hour away from where my family and MOH live. I told her that today I would be in town to go flower girl dress shopping with my mom and sister, and that she could come by my mom's house to try it on when we were done. She said that was a great plan and thanked me for getting the dress.
Today when I was in town I contacted her to see when she was coming, and she kept asking me to drive 15 minutes and bring the dress to her. I was spending time with my family and had to leave early, and I really didn't feel like I should have to bring it right to her door when I drove to the store to get it for her and all she had to do is drive a little to get it. I told her she would have to drive to my mom's house or get it from me at another time.
All of a sudden she got really angry and was talking about how David's Bridal shouldn't have released the dress to me without her permission. She actually called and yelled at them (which is super embarassing). She told me I had to drive it back to David's bridal, and that if she requested it david's bridal could make me bring it back?
She was acting like I was holding her dress hostage or something, even though she asked me to get it for her. I know she was excited to get the dress but it seems like she was throwing a fit because she couldn't have it today. The whole thing ended with me saying she could have the dress whenever she came to get it and that was that. I would never keep her dress from her even if she left the wedding party because she paid for her dress, I just don't have time to deliver it to her nor should I have to.
I have no idea where this is coming from and I am so hurt she is acting like this. She is my best friend but in some ways living apart has made us grow apart in some ways. I just don't know what to do. I am half way wondering if this is her way of telling me she doesn't want to do the wedding? even though she says it's not and she just wants her dress. I just need to know if I am being irrational?