So my FMIL is hosting the RD and she emailed me a few minutes ago; my MOH is the last person to respond to the invitation and she was hoping I could contact her to find out if she had a choice. If she didn't that was fine but she was just wondering.
Anyway, my MOH responds with "It's not the RSVP deadline yet and I haven't spoken to my husband." Hold on...her husband responded no to the wedding; his reason for not attending - he usually doesn't attend these family functions. That's fine, but did you really expect to RSVP no to my wedding and yes to the rehearsal dinner??????
I text her to clarify because I got an RSVP no to the wedding; she said that's true but he's coming to the RD. I told her he wasn't accomodated - and will not be.
I'm sorry but I'm really pissed about this; her responsibility in the WP was to buy a dress and show up....right? She didn't even manage to do that and is wearing a dress of her choice because she wanted to stand out from the WP. I've been holding my tongue throughout this process but this is too close to the end of my rope.