OK here is the update from my dress shopping trip. Not 100% successful, but good progress. I found the eact shape that I am looking for, but I didn't like the beading details. I am debating getting a dress custom done at this point because I don't think they have exactly what I want.
This dress is the exact style I want with the details I like best, but haven't been able to try on the exact dress anywhere. If I don't do something a little custom i will buy this.
Brenda by Sottero and Midgley