We went to the doctor on Friday.
He needs surgery.
But, for now the doctor will try to control the pain with epidermals. His first one is Friday.
The doctor wants one of us to switch insurance before we do surgery b/c his (or mine since we have the same provider) won't cover the surgery he needs. It will cover another surgery that won't really fix the problem just prevent it from getting worse. Which means he will be in pain for the rest of his life. No fun.
So I talked to my boss, and we are switching companies next year when our policy is up for renewal. Hopefully the epidermals will help him until then.
Thank you everyone that sent us good thoughts. We really appreciate the support.