Another TMI question

amonis

I know there are several of you that are not having sex until your wedding night whether it be because you are still a virgin or just because you have decided to wait.  Do you and your FI "have fun" in other ways?  Is anything sexual off limits or just sex?

FI and I are not having sex, but we still have fun in other ways without going all the way. I just wondered how many others were like us.

peachykeen26

It's all off limits. It's too easy to get caught in the heat of the moment, so we just don't have the heat right now. I mean, we do... We definietly have the sexual tension and the desire to have sex, but we just avoid the situation. Not to say we haven't slipped up- we have. But, we are trying.

kelsey+brandon

We still have fun in other ways. I know it's technically cheating, but that poor man....we share a bed everything night. It's just mean otherwise.

P.S. Funny story (or I thought so)...

When we were talking about what we were giving up for lent, I asked FI what he was doing and I told him I was giving up dessert. He just looked at me and was like, "Isn't sex enough!?!?!" hehe

Ash61612

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[QUOTE]We still have fun in other ways. I know it's technically cheating, but that poor man....we share a bed everything night. It's just mean otherwise. P.S. Funny story (or I thought so)... When we were talking about what we were giving up for lent, I asked FI what he was doing and I told him I was giving up dessert. <strong>He just looked at me and was like, "Isn't sex enough!?!?!" hehe</strong>
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]
LOL

chelseakopperud

We try to abstain from everything. We have never had sex and will not until the wedding night... but its really tough on FI to not do ANYTHING. So everyone once in a while (like once or twice a month) we do other fun things.

amonis

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[QUOTE]We still have fun in other ways. I know it's technically cheating, but that poor man....we share a bed everything night. It's just mean otherwise. P.S. Funny story (or I thought so)... When we were talking about what we were giving up for lent, I asked FI what he was doing and I told him I was giving up dessert. <strong>He just looked at me and was like, "Isn't sex enough!?!?!" hehe</strong>
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]
haha! Your poor Fi :) He's being so good about it though. He only has 100 days left!

MMRoberts11

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[QUOTE]He just looked at me and was like, "Isn't sex enough!?!?!" hehe
Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]

LOL.  Poor guy.  At least he only has a few more months.

Purple&7

We have fun in other ways. Sometimes once or twice a month. We are so ready for the wedding night and honeymoon. My poor FI can't stand the wait any longer. We've been together for 4.5 years!

MiksChick23

I didn't realize so many of you were waiting or are taking a sex break! I don't feel so weird now. We started abstaining quite a while ago (around the time when I'd have been 8-9 months pregnant at our wedding had I gotten pregnant), and we just kinda kept it up. I am absolutely PARANOID I will get knocked up and my dress won't fit. I'm giving in for his 30th bday this weekend though b/c if I DO get preggers, I won't be showing come wedding time. Ultimately I'd like to be able to drink a little at my bachelorette party / wedding, but I'd rather have a baby so.... We do do other stuff though...