My fiance is really frustrating right now! As of now we have no music for our wedding. The original plan was that fiance's brother who does sound engineering for different bands and performances was going to set up all the music for us which I was fine with because I was confident in his work. Well turns out that he might be on tour with a band during our wedding and he doesn't know if he'll be able to do the music.
I would like to look into hiring a DJ but for some reason my fiance doesn't even want to consider it. All he tells me is that he doesn't like the microphone guys. I try to tell him that the DJ is not going to be talking the whole night. I just want someone there who knows what they are doing.
My fiance wants to ask his other brother who does similar work to his other brother but I would feel so weird asking him to do it. His other brother who was supposed to do it offered to do it for us. First, the brother he wants to ask now has a daughter who is one of our flower girls and I don't want him to miss her walking down the aisle. Second, in the five years I've been with my fiance I think I've understood maybe like 5 things that this brother has said. He talks so low and it just sounds like mumbling. I want to be able to talk to the person doing our music. Third, I don't feel as confident in the work he does. I've never seen him work before and I just don't feel comfortable with it. I've explained all of this to my fiance and his solution to that is to just have someone set up the sound system and we'll do the music.
I'm trying so hard to make our wedding day as stress free as possible and I just feel like booking a DJ without my fiance. It's just so frustrating right now and my fiance doesn't seem like he cares.
Just needed to get that out, we've had several "discussions" about this and it doesn't seem to be getting anywhere. I just don't know what to do anymore.