Okay...so we all know how some guys can be...everything looks the same so just give me whatever type attitude. How do I make sure my FI and groomsmen get the right tuxes/colors that we've been talking about? I don't want to intrude by going with them, since that's a 'guys day'.
what to do??

We went putt putting on the ship the day after we became engaged..so that is why there is a pink golf ball in his hand!
