I actually hope she's joking, but it doesn't seem like it.
So my brother got married this past August. As a side note to this story they did not have a WP aside from a FG and RB, so I took no part in their wedding. I was perfectly fine with that and had A LOT of fun. Their wedding rocked.
Well, SIL had some really nice photo albums from the wedding made and when we went to visit aunts, uncle and cousins she was showing them the albums. My cousin, A, voiced that she was upset(?) that she wasn't in very many of the photos. She's one of 4 cousins of the G, not really a high priority person.
On another visit after that, she asked me if she would be in my WP. I told her no, that I'm having a small wedding party. If I included female cousins, that would add an additional 3 people to my BP bringing the total up to 7 - not happening. She voiced how upset she was (doing this in front of her whole family) while we were stuck sitting in a restaurant.
I almost feel bad, but not at the same time. I feel bad that I can't seem to please her on this level, but I'm upset with how childish she's behaving. I wasn't in my brother's wedding or my cousins wedding many years earlier. We have that sort of family where we see cousins a few times a year, so we weren't raised to be best friends or anything like that. I wish she could just be happy as a guest and understand that weddings aren't parades.
I'm hoping that this just gets brushed under the table and doesn't come into conversation anymore, but any suggestions for if it does?