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Slight Vent.

Maybe Not So Slight.

So I'm Young Right.?? Right. Apparently So Young That Tash Wants To Take Me Up Under Her Wing. Lol. Anyhoo, FI And I Are A Very Fun, Outgoing, Spontaneous Couple. I'm Sure He Fell In Love With My Weirdness And Accepted It, Which Is One Of The Things I Love About Him. I Love Tattoos, I Love The Way Piercings Look, I Only Have Three, I Outgrew The Rest, And I Love Weird Colorful, But Tasteful Hair, And Weird, But Tasteful Clothing. Now I Have Aboooooout 7 Tattoos, Which Isn't Really Alot If You Ask Me, Especially If I'm Not Done Yet. One Of Them Includes A Huge Half Sleeve On My Left Arm Of A Mermaid. Because I Love The Ocean Of Course, And A Seahorse. I Love This Tat, And Would Gladly Share A Picture If Anyone Wants To See Lol. Anyways, Last Saturday, FI's Mom Had A Get Together For All Of Her Kids To Come Over, Play Cards, Have A Good Time. You Know She Has 12 Of Them. I Stayed Home Because The Kids Were Already Sleep And Plus I Work Sunday Mornings Now. 7AM. Blah. So The Topic Of Discussion Somehow Ended Up Being FMIL And One Of My FSIL Asking FI Why I Have This Tattoo And Why I'm F'ng Up My Dress By Not Covering It. Now I Admit, I Talked To FI About Covering My Smaller Tattoos But That Was Before I Got This Beauty, And I Don't Want To Cover Her Because She's Flipping Gorgeous. I Just Got Her For My Birthday So She's Not Even Two Months Old Yet. I Also Want To Color Like 5 Locs In The Front Red. So They Proceeded To Say That I Messed Up A Perfectly Beautiful Dress By Getting This Tattoo And To Add Insult To Injury That I'm Going To Look Like A Clown With My Red Hair On My Wedding Day. Nobody's Going To Want To Come To Your Wedding With You Looking Like A Clown. So, Me, I'm Not The Type For Confrontation. FSIL, However Says The First Things That Come To Mind, Even If No One Even Asked Her Opinion. FI Took Up For Me And So Did His Twin, His Best Woman, Because She Is Just Like Me. I Know The Whole Everybody Is Going To Have Their Own Opinions But That Really Hurt For Her To Say That I'm Going To Look Like A Clown. We Normally Go Over There Alot, I Haven't Been. Cause Everytime I Go Over, That's What They Talk About. My Tattoo. And How Unattractive It Is. But My FI Loves My Tattoos, And He Loves My Hair, So If He Doesn't Hate It, Then Who Cares What Anybody Else Thinks. But Like I Said, It Still Hurts And Is Slightly Annoying. I Would Never Insult Someone's Personality Because That's Who You Are. It's Not Like I'm Massively Tatted, It's Just One Big One. And A Bunch Of Small Ones. FMIL Has A Little Bit To Say Cause She Bought My Dress, But FSIL Has Nothing To Say Because Her And Her Husband Are Living In Separate Houses, And You Live With Your Mom And Your Two Kids. I Live In My Own, With My Man, And Two Kids. No Parents. And I'm About 12 Years Younger Than You, Making More Money. So What Does That Say About You.?? You Have NO ROOM To Speak. Don't Exercise Your Freedom To Speak About My Shiz Until You Can Afford To Pay For It. FI Made Me Feel Better Telling Me That He Stood Up For Me. There Are Alot Of Things Going On With My Wedding That No One Likes. Like My Invitations Which Are Ironically Like A Carnival Theme. I Guess Since I'm Going To Look Like A Clown, It Fits. My Programs Are Fun. I Was Told It's Supposed To Be Elegant And Classy. That Doesn't Work With My Personality. Elegant And Classy Is Boring. I Sent Out My Save The Dates Too Late, My Bridesmaids Dresses Aren't Classy Enough, My FAQ Card Is Tacky, My Locs In The Wedding Isn't Classy, Just Anything They Could Find To Criticize. Just Wanted To Share With You Tuesday Madness. And See What You Ladies Think. Thanks For Listening.
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Re: Slight Vent.

  • Wow! All I can say is be who you are. Which from the sound of things you are already doing well at that. Good for you standing on your own two feet. Forget the haters!
  • ok i could not read that lol 
    i made it to the 7 tats lol 

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  • Lol I Know It's Alot Sorry. I Just Had To Release
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  • Sha.... GIRL... BE YOU AND FORGET THAT GIRL... this is YOUR WEDDING.. and whatever makes you two happy.... that's all that matters...

    I have nothing nice to say about her... soo I will say nothing at all..

    Dont let someone elses opinion of what YOU SHOULD DO FOR YOUR OWN WEDDING dictate what you do, how you act, or what you wear... I LOVE MY TATTS.. and I am not covering them up at all.. They are apart of me and my FI knows that and if he has nothing to say... nobody... and i mean NOBODY  else does... They tell a story.. of where I was... have moved on from and the beautiful woman I have grown into...

    To each his own!!!!! that's all I gotta say about that..
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  • Hey, if you or FI don't have a problem with the tats, invites, etc then don't worry about what others think! It's your wedding. Do you girl!
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  • I'm rocking locs and tats as well. All of my butterflies will be showing well the ones that supposed to be seen anyway. Do you, the moment you decide to try to be something or someone you are not to make someone else happy is the moment you give them power of you.
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  • Sigh..1st off..I love tats I have 3 myself and want 2 more. I want to see yours. That sucks that they are being so opinionated about what you are doing with your hair and body. It is your and FI day. If you was having a full circus charade for your wedding then so what. Your day is what you want it to be. Sorry they are being mean I hope you feel better soon.
  • i love tats too but mine dont show.. but that is my perefence.... 
    its your day.... tell them b*tch boo bye in your head and giggle 

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  • tell her ass that if its such an issue and no one will want to come....then u wont be expecting her IGNANT (not ignorant) ass there.....ELYCE CANT STAND B*TCHES!!!
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