My poor FI and I have been battling it out the past few days. I think I am being bridezilla and I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do....however I would still like outside opinions. Colors are yellow and grey. Girls are in charcoal dresses popping yellow in their bouquets and shoes. FI wants groomsmen in yellow (not canary) vests and bowties. I would prefer all grey and just yellow neckties. He's not too happy with me.
This is what he wants. Does it look bad? Please be honest.

He is willing to wear this but wants the groomsmen to remain in outfit above. Some of the girls on facebook suggested maybe groomsmen wear this and let him wear outfit above.

This is what I want but he doesn't want the neckties at all.