Okay, so my FI just calls me to tell me that his dad has a list of 20 to add on to our guest list. I was like, honey, we can't fit 20 more poeple into our venue. He understood and hung up. BUT, where does his dad get off adding people to the guest list this late in the game. My FI hardly speaks to his dad let alone the rest of his family. I kind of get the feeling that his father wants to turn this into a family reunion. We are basically paying for the wedding ourselves (with a little bit of help from from my parents) and is already at the max of how many guests we can have. FI is like, but what's going to happen when we see them at the family reunion at the end of August. I'm like, the truth, we are having a smaller wedding and can't accommodate more people...UGGGGHHHH!! Anyone else gone or going through this??