vent!!!!

brobin01

I am so sick of people asking me questions!   Why you chose to get married on Memorial Day weekend? Why do you have such a large bridal party (8 BM & 8 GM) Why aren’t your cousins in the wedding? Why you wearing two dresses? Why my kids can’t come to the reception? Why are you considering using silk flowers? B/C it’s my MF’ing wedding and I do WTF I want to do? Don’t F’in come!   Oh and one more, my fiancé family think they a$$ staying with us for the week of the wedding! Hell no! not happening! We have a two bedroom two bath and I been telling them they are going to get hotel rooms. They better get used to Extended Stay Hotel because that is going to be there home away from home while they are here!!  I will need peace in my home during that week and wedding stuff will be everywhere so I needs my space! I am sick of people and I still have 9 months to go!   Omg, I am so annoyed!   What is annoying you at this moment?

Mypasmita

same thing. People thinking they will just stay at my house for 3 weeks... grrr!PS: I keep stalking your post to see how much time i have left from your sticker! lol

brobin01

lol! girl!! the clock is ticking for us!

the cat

What's annoying me right now is NWR. P is whining about me not wanting to spend time with him. It pisses me the F off to have him text me asking what I'm doing. I tell him there's a lunch with our parish Bar Association of which my boss is the president. This MF calls me!!!! Then gets upset b/c i didn't answer. FOOL...didn't I just TELL u, scuse me - TEXT u, what was going on? Then b/c he wanted to have lunch and i wasn't available to him, I don't have time for him. Last night he asks me where he can get something done. I immediately get on the phone to get the info for him. Well the person needed more info so i go in to ask him. He gets attitude! As if to say, can i take a shower in peace? Well i write down what P needs. When he gets out the shower, i'm on the phone with my sister. He's asking me what the person said and all. Well u know i jumped stupid. I told him it wasn't so important he couldn't wait to go shower, so it's not so important that i have to get off the phone right now. I COULD CHOKE ME SOME PERRY!!!

Mypasmita

Tell me about it. i can't find a well priced videographer to save my life and i just want to give up but FI really wants one. I need to check that off and move onto music and flowers

alfdallas21

YAY a "vent" session...ok you asked "what is annoying you at this moment?" - here goes: why in the "F" would someone ask me "WHY YOU PLANNING YOUR DH 40TH B-DAY NOW, HIS B-DAY ISN'T UNTIL MARCH OF NEXT YEAR?!"...my thing is WHY ASK WHY, you aint paying for none of this ish and cuz I'm like that, I needs to get my ducks in a row NOW and not wait until the last freakin' minute - THAT'S WHY!!"WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO BAKERIES ABOUT A B-DAY PARTY CAKE, JUST GO TO SAM'S OR COSTO?!"...again WHY ASK WHY, you aint paying for none of this ish and cuz it's my DH and this is a momentous (sp) b-day so no Sam's or Costo cake is gonna cut it - THAT'S WHY!!needless to say, I have stopped communicating to my GF about what plans I am working on because I just don't understand why you can't be positive and keep the negative comments to yourself when YOU TOOK YOUR DH TO CHICAGO FOR HIS 40th 3 yrs ago, but I'm not supposed to do ish for mine, girl bye!!...LOL!   

Mypasmita

Cat, we love P, Please don't choke him. LOL!

alfdallas21

no mame Cat we will not allow you to be choking Perry...you can pinch him but no choking!!...LOL!  but that would have gotten under my skin too, so I will give you a slight pass on "jumping stupid with him"...LOL!!

brobin01

CAT!!! Girl, men are from a different planet! that is all I can say about that girl!!! LMAO!!!! My fiance got mad at me b/c of of something the cable guy did! girl, that is a whole nother post! LOL

the cat

mypasmita - i luvs him too gurl, but lawd... alf - thanks for the pass cuz my blood gets to burlin' (boiling) and all i can see is 10 brown fingers around 1 pink neck!

brobin01

pasmita - girl, i was lucky and found a GREAT videographer for $500!!! I was geeked about that!Alf - tell these peeps to kick rocks! you can do what you want..it's your DH and your money!

alfdallas21

ok Cat - you are officially being sent to the corner for that one "10 brown fingers around 1 pink neck"!...go on, get in that corner...LOL!  (girl you are truly R-E-T-A-R-D-E-D!!)  

the cat

And yes Alf...do what u do for your man girl! That's YO man! Heck...I'm bout to start planning my vow renewal that's in 9 years. LOL! J/K. But really...don't you love how people like to tell you what NOT to do for your people when they've done that and then some for theirs?! Brobin - tell me bru man is not blaming u for the cable man's issues! That's some funny stuff!

alfdallas21

mypasmita - have you posted your need for a videographer on your local board?...maybe some of the knotties can provide you with some recs. that you may not have contacted already... brobin01 - girl that's exactly why I just stopped talking about it all together with my GF cuz I was not about to explain myself to anyone especially when I was supportive of you when you were making plans for your DH several years ago...but I digress!

brobin01

cat! yes, mad becasue cable man put the HD/DVR in our bedroom instead of the living room TV! this fool had me on the phone with Direct TV for over an hour just so I could get some peace in my house!! chiillldddd!

julinejb

OMG Brandi!! Same over here... I had a cousin tryna make me feel bad about not letting everyone stay at my house. Now granted FI & I just bought a 5 bedroom house and it's just him and I and my 2 daughters, but what would it look like for me & my daughters to be staying at a hotel the night before and the rest of my whole damn family being at my house with FI?!?!?!? I know I am not tripping about that!!! Can the poor dude have his house to himself the night before his wedding??? WTF?? Sorry to piggyback of your vent, but the next 16 days are starting to wear me down!!!

Mypasmita

Brobin- I am hating on you $500 videographer. That's exactely what i needAlf- I did ask on the local board and everything i got was highher than I am willing to spend at this point because i didn't budget for one and FI REALLY wants one.

Ladysun083

Do I need to start collecting bail money? I'm not saying just saying. Lol

brobin01

juline - u are not tripping! he nees that night to himself to collect his thoughts! And family is so f**kin inconsiderate..why dou think you need to be all up in our space during wedding week?! arrgh!

julinejb

Thank you Brandi, cause I was really going crazy in my head between feeling bad and thinking, "well I guess ya'll ain't comin", LOL!!What makes it worse is that I said since Thanksgiving last year (which we hosted at our house), that NO ONE was staying at my house for the wedding. I don't want to be bothered by a bunch of people in my face and I KNOW FI, surely don't want it with my loud a$$ family!Hmmph, they better figure something out cause otherwise, I guess I'll be slashing my list down a bit!!

brobin01

exactly how i feel!!!! imy problem is FI too..he is a push over when it comes to his aggressive a$$ sister...they are all going to learn the hard way..i got something for them if they try to stay at my crib! LOL

pretteone

I'm with you on this.  If one more person asks me something..........    

julinejb

It's funny to me cause I think they sent my cousin to try to wear me down... (he's my fav cousin). At one point one of them told my sis they weren't coming, then I heard that they were coming, then after I had that conversation with my cousin and didn't back down, they weren't coming anymore... OH WELL!! 3 less mouths we have to feed. BYE!! LOL!!

brobin01

thats exactly how i feel!!! holla! LOL