Hi Ladies! I just watched this "documentary" (and I use the term loosely). It should have been called Diary of a Bitter Jaded Black Man. It was very interesting, but pretty negatively slanted against black women. I walked away from the film going, oh ok, so all black women are angry and want to date thugs. Interesting. Well, somehow I fell through the cracks because I'm a black woman and my FI is not a thug and I've never dated thugs in the past. Anyways, I guess these men feel that they are not appreciated enough. It got me to thinking about the little things I have done for my FI to show him how much I appreciate him. Sometimes I go to the store and get him his favorite beer and sweets just because. For his b-day I cooked him dinner (and it actually turned out pretty good, he does all of the cooking) and made like a little invitation and menu listing the meal that I prepared. And one year for Valentine's Day I created a little scavenger hunt around the house and the clues were based on things that I love about him and/or memories of our relationship. What are some things that you ladies have done for your FI to show him how much you love and appreciate him?