I will try not to be long... Ok during our initial process of planning our wedding, FI had a cousin who does DJ'ing for a living, and he offered to DJ our wedding. I told his cousin that for his time we would offer him a small monetary gift. And it was fine until cousin has now become MIA. FI keeps telling me not to worry about it and that the cousin will come thru. Well FI's family is not the most reliable honestly. Not saying they are bad they just do everything on CPT time. I am getting antsy about the whole thing and contacted a professional DJ service here in Charlotte. I do not want to get 3 mos to the wedding and no DJ. I got the contracts emailed to me from the company last night and we are meeting sometime in December to put the details in order, deposits, final payment schedule etc. This company has been on it since I contacted them. They have even found an affordable videographer for us. FI is dead set against hiring the DJ but I explained to him my fears, the inconsistencies, etc. What would you do if you were in this position?
