When you were down to the wire? I'm sitting here reviewing the list of the final things I have to do for this wedding and my reception, as I'll officially have 30 days until the wedding tommorrow and 51 days until the reception at home. I'm just thinking about all the money we've spent here and there and the final items we have to take care of, i.e. boarding the dog, getting our plane tickets for our reception, etc. I'm like my Lord where are we going to find the rest of the money for this. I can't wait until this wedding is over. I would probably be crazy if I actually had a bridal party and a full blown wedding to deal with. I keep trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel once we are married. No more wedding expenses and some of our other expenses will decrease, such as the need for us to not have to carry two seperate health insurance policies. Well the gubment pays for his (retired military). I wish tommorrow was October 31st LOL