Hey thanks so much for your input. I knew you would keep it real! The chick I got into with is FI cousin's girlfriend. The heffa ain't even in the family. I called and apologized to his mom and she still has a attitude. The heffa that I went off on has stabb his cousin not once but twice. The last incident just a month ago at FI's moms house! Swat team and all was called!She has stolen from FI cousin's kids! I just don't understand why FI's mom would just side with her! I guess because she gives her some of her foodstamps!My fiance has stated that we will get married come hell or highwater! lol...I just don't want these IGNANT people causing a sceen at my wedding. I promised fiance I would speak if spoken to by his mom.But I will NOT never ever go to any of his family functions again. I think that's fair enough.Thanks again!!Aneitra