African American Weddings

MrClintonsFirstLady09

Hey thanks so much for your input. I knew you would keep it real!  The chick I got into with is FI cousin's girlfriend. The heffa ain't even in the family. I called and apologized to his mom and she still has a attitude. The heffa that I went off on has stabb his cousin not once but twice. The last incident just a month ago at FI's moms house! Swat team and all was called!She has stolen from FI cousin's kids! I just don't understand why FI's mom would just side with her! I guess because she gives her some of her foodstamps!My fiance has stated that we will get married come hell or highwater! lol...I just don't want these IGNANT people causing a sceen at my wedding. I promised fiance I would speak if spoken to by his mom.But I will NOT never ever go to any of his family functions again. I think that's fair enough.Thanks again!!Aneitra

Re: MrClintonsFirstLady09

  • edited December 2011
    LOL @ mom getting some foodstamps. Damn you think she will sell me some? I am tired of spending my money at the store. NC has gone up on it's  sales tax too. LMAONo seriously, you have to be the bigger person regardless. I know it will be a hard task but trust me, you will get respect in the end because you did not stoop to their level. Don't let them deter you from your wedding plans. They are irrelevant honestly. You did the best you could and his mom still has an attitude, then you did your part. she is the one with the problem now. Just keep being cordial. If you don't feel like going to the family functions right now then I say don't. For right now anyway. God has a way of changing things. Take it to him and leave it there. He has a way of making your enemies your foot stools. Trust and believe he will work it out for the good of all involved. I wish you much luck and happiness.  God bless.
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