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what will/does your future step child call you?

My FH son calls me Miss. Myfirst name. In my FH's family people refer to their mothers as mumsie/ mum. Yesterday my future stepson told me I am now Miss. Mumsie since I am not  his biological mom he added the Miss. He calls his bioligcal mommy.  He heard  his cousins on his father's side  calling their mother "mumsie".  We are not getting married until april knowing my FSS ( future stepson) he will change my name 10 more times as he is five. I thought it was so funny Miss. Mumsie. I tried to explain that I will be a Mrs. it went over his head. I just love children they crack me up.So once you are married what will your future step child call you or what does he/she call you know.

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    Stephanie24/7Stephanie24/7 member
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    edited December 2011
    Madre and my kids call him Padre
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    edited December 2011
    My FSS use to call me ma until his ignorant mother told him that he is not to call me ma until after his father and I get married. So now he calls me Aneitra. Which is ok with me, however he slips every so often and call me ma!
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    edited December 2011
    Just had to butt in .... Miss Mumsie is CUTE!!!! Awww ***You may now return to your regularly scheduled post***
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    tmwade520tmwade520 member
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    edited December 2011
    Right now my FSD (future step-daughter) calls me Ti-Ti because thats what my nephew and other little kids call me. Im ok with it now but I think it will be alittle weird when she gets alittle older (she is 2 now). So I'm trying to think of something different...
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    edited December 2011
    My FSS's call me Miss Krystle. At one point me and their mom were cool (she doesn't want my FI and he doesn't want her so we got along fine) and she told the kids they might as well call me mama. So IDK what they will call me once we get married. I wouldn't be surprised if they continued to call me Miss Krystle. It's totally up to them.
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    edited December 2011
    My stepdaughter calls me momma. She just asked out the blue one day if she can call me that, and I talked to her father about it and he said fine, so that's what she calls me. Her mom still doesn't know we are getting married unless my stepdaughter has told her. So when she was telling her grandmother that me and momma did this this summer and I had fun, her mother called and told my fiance she doesn't feel comfortable with her calling me that since we aren't married, she needs to call me by my first name or call me Ms. Caprina. She said she can see if we planned on getting married. I tol him to tell her to call back in 3 weeks. LOL He told her that when she's here she does everything for her that a mother would do and more so if that's what she wants to call her I'm not going to confuse her.
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    edited December 2011
    My FSD's call me Sarah. They used to call me Miss Sarah but I asked them to stop. I'm really comfortable with anything they want to call me. We're really close but they know I'm not trying to replace their Mom.
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