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Man pleasers...

the catthe cat
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in African American Weddings
So we all know how to please our men...right? RIGHT! We also like to keep it fresh..right? RIGHT. Care to swap some ideas? Not necessarily sexual, but if u wanna share that, I'm certainly listening! I know there's tons of ways to keep it fresh, but sometimes we tend to get a little lax. Let's see if we can help each other out. P likes when I give him full body massages. From shoulders to shins. I haven't gotten down to the feet yet but I'm working on it! I use massage oils from B&BW. I microwave for about 7 seconds, then get to work.
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    im taking out my pen and paper!  FI likes when I leave him alone, and when i give him pedicures, wtf?
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    DH is a bath man; can't stand showers, so I like to surprise him sometimes and run his bath water and use my bodywash...and if I shampoo his hair and oil his scalp, he's like putty in my hands!  LOL! :)
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  • brobin01brobin01
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    edited December 2011
    umm, yeah..I got nothing... (pulling out my pen and pad).All I gotta do for FI is wear boy shorts with a little bit of my butt hanging out around the house and cook a mean dinner..lol
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  • trevette1981trevette1981 member
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    edited December 2011
    I wish I had some pampering ideas like everyone else has, but he doesn't like that kinda stuff. Weird.LOLI do use different costumes for when we do role play or I cook him dinner. Like the cliche French Maid or Little Red Riding Hood just for something different. LOL. We're quite corny and he'd die if he knew I wrote all that.LOL
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  • NELCORPNELCORP member
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    edited December 2011
    As far as pampering FI and I go to the nail salon togehter to get mani pedi (me) and pedi (him).  I did his feet once myself but I can't stand feet in general so that was the only and last time. But sexually, FI likes when I dress in some lingerie (any type) and clean the house, especially when I mop the floors and vacum.
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  • milana1023milana1023 member
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    edited December 2011
    Mr. Melo is a massage man too, but for our first Valentine's Day together, I gave him this candle. He looked at me a little strange but its a soy candle. Once it starts to melt, it can be used as a massage oil. Its nice and warm and it smells like heaven. He was no more good once I started. Since then we've gone through 3...and they last quite a while. Other than that, I have to wear boy shorts around the house with my hair down. And I'm not a feet person but lucky for him he has nice feet so he gets a foot massage every once in while.
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  • Lovie 129Lovie 129
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    edited December 2011
    I give my FI facials, he loves it, he's really into his skin. I gave him a  book titled name that place. It's different areas in Baltimore and Richmond we've been to, if he gets right answer, we have super sex in or around that same place. He loves it, and I got to make love in the rain ( a fantasy of mine).
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    Brobin you are a fool!!!
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    lovie -- you go girl!!!
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  • ladylumladylum member
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    edited December 2011
    What else can I think of other than getting pregnant even though I was ambivalent about having another child . . .? He likes it when out of nowhere I tell him how much I appreciate the fact that he's in my life. His ex-wife and ex-girlfriends took him for granted (he has a BIG heart) so when he hears that he melts.
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  • KimRhoneKimRhone
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    edited December 2011
    FI likes when we take bubble baths together (thought I should be the 1 liking that). I'm usually the 1 who cooks dinner so he loves when I'm off and I make him breakfast. Maybe tmi for some but he likes it when I ride (I squat) and I don't go all the way down. He likes the tease
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  • KimRhoneKimRhone
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    edited December 2011
    Lovie, where did u get that book from? I need that 1
    Lovin Kimmie
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  • milinimilini member
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    edited December 2011
    My husband loves it when I call him Daddy. After we got married he stated that would be his nickname and mine was mommy. He also likes for me to keep my tush completely shaved. He also likes to shave it himself. He loves to massage me in the nude. He likes to watch pron together as well. I know he likes a lot, but that is my job and they relatively easy to do. We always bathe and shower together if we are both home.
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  • Lovie 129Lovie 129
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    edited December 2011
    Kim,I made it, the only DIY crafty project I ever did. I got a blank book perforated edge paper that can be torn out, bought different colored paper (kinko's), and created the coupons of places we had been together. I wrote jokes (some nasty, some funny) and included  clues of each place. If he guessed the place, he got whatever was written on the back of the coupon.Try it, he loves it. I'm making one up for all the wedding stuff I'm making him go to ot go through.
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  • KimRhoneKimRhone
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    edited December 2011
    Thanx for the idea Lovie. I'm def going to try it
    Lovin Kimmie
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