African American Weddings

I need some repllent for all this Haterade!!!!!!

Seriously why do females get so jealous of others instead of giving them their props? So yall know I put some of my pro pics on FB well the hubby's bestman wife apparently commented on one of my pics, but when I checked it, it was gone?! I'm like wtf who comments on a post then deletes it? The reason I say she's hating because they were engaged and married in 5 months. Actually the hubby bestman told us that she was upset that I was proposed to before her (she and her husband had been dating for like 5 yrs) and my husband threw me a surprise engagement party at a really nice restuarant when he proposed. So under pressure her husband had proposed to her to keep her quiet thinking they would be engaged for a while but she was so ready she set the date for 5 months later! So the wedding was real rushed and they make more then me and my hubby do (I wasn't working during the wedding really) but their wedding was really tacky. However I was happy for them because they were in love. Now when she put up her pictures I made sure to comment on her's , apparently she saw mines, made a comment then decided to erase it..who does that? Next female let's call her S, is my cousin's girlfriend who he jus start bringing around last year. Well one of my female cousin's got married this saturday and had a really nice wedding. So female S decides to put on her fb status, that was the best wedding I've been to yet even though I didn't have fun. I'm like everyone is entitled to their own opinion but I would have NEVER did that knowing I was on fb and she was just at my wedding the month before. Like my wedding was subpar or something. When she and my cousin was literally posted against the bar the ENTIRE night drinking, stayed to the VERY end trying to take the left over apps home and here's the kicker DIDN'T EVEN GIVE US A GIFT! I'm like the nerve of the broad. Then she's like I can't wait til I get married, my hunny (my male cousin) told me to get ready. But he's telling the family that he's not going to marry the girl. Why can't people just be happy for each other. I can be the most supportive person but when people try to play me sideways it's another story.I'm done lol I just needed to vent!

Re: I need some repllent for all this Haterade!!!!!!

  • luvelynicluvelynic member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Girl some ppl are just like that let them drink that haterade!! Your wedding was Beautiful and some ppl don't know how to give complaints when they are due. To hell with them!
  • kaykay211kaykay211 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Thanks and excuse my errors I hate that lol!
  • edited December 2011
    Girl, you know weddings bring out the best and worst in people.  I have family members that are doing me sideways already and aren't coming to my wedding and not because I didn't invite them.  You know how I look at it:  That's more money in my pocket.  Your wedding was GORGEOUS but some people can't see beyond a wedding for the marriage and those are the one's that will forever be haters. 
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  • edited December 2011
    giirrrlll that is life!!! u know everybody loved your wedding on here so the haters dn't matter...tell them to kick rocks!
  • edited December 2011
    giiiirl, do you need me to write a book! you know how these females are its just sad and unecesary (sp) dam why cant i spell uncessary today (is that right?) well anyway, it takes more energy to be evil than it does to be supportive.  Things would be much better in life if you are just happy for one another instead of trying to subliminally(sp) tear them down.**disclaimer** sorry i cannot spell for sh*t today
  • edited December 2011
    Shhhh...please! How could you NOT have a fab wedding? You're an AAW Knottie! But really, your wedding was beautiful and you know it. That's just how some people are. They have to try and blow out your candle so theirs can shine brighter. Chic 1 knows her wedding was probably 'average' and chic 2 is just hoping to have one!
  • edited December 2011
    *hands kaykay a can of Hater-B-Gone*Spray away girl!! =)
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  • edited December 2011
    girl STOP IT I SAY!!!...GTFOH, dem (yes dem not them) bishes just mad cuz you and DH put a fab wedding together - THE END!!!...nothing more nothing less...you wedding was classy, fun and very expressive of the love that you & DH as well as your fams have for each other...chica #1 is mad as fish grease that hers was thrown together (btw - is this the same couple that gave y'all the gift from the dollar store but y'all give them a very nice gift when they got married??) and chica #2 is hoping and praying that she is lucky enough to have your cousin wife her up (yep, I went ghetto...LOL!)...dem chicas can kick rocks cuz in the end they cannot take the shine and joy from you wonderful wedding...but I must say haters do give you alot to laugh about!  :)
  • edited December 2011
    Kaykay, enjoy your marital bliss. Do not allow something as petty as this get next to you. I know it is easier said than done but sometimes you have to let haters do what they do best HATE! did you not read comedians Katt Williams memo on haters? Girl that is their job. Let them muther uckers do their job. I would have the attitude, "feel free to hate on me". Saying my wedding wasn't fun when you know it was biotch! Girl bye. These women are petty and pathetic. Don't waste no more of your energy on that anymore. You already know what it is.
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  • ddyoungddyoung member
    Fifth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    ummmm that siggy pic is repellent enough! it is absolutely stunning and you should look at it every day and remember how happy you were at that moment... because haters will be haters... what's the saying?If they are hating then you MUST be doing something right??? And if you don't have haters, you might need to step your game up??? Something like that lol. Be flattered and laugh it off!
  • edited December 2011
    Girl let those haters hate. You and everyone on this board know that your wedding was beautiful! It's a shame that people can't be happy for one another. I agree with alf & cat heffa # 1 is just mad because she had a halfass wedding. And heffa #2 is just mad because she's not having a wedding. My grandmother has always told me that when a person talks about you, it's something about you they like.
  • edited December 2011
    Girl your wedding was the bomb. Let the Haters Hate. Listen to MrClintonsFirstLady(girl you need a shorter name lmao) and everybody else. If i was you I would put on my status "HI HATERS I SEE YOU WATCHING AND WISHING!!!!" and go on about my business lol.
  • milana1023milana1023 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Kels girl are you serious?? Straight nonsense! You know your wedding was absolutely beautiful. People will always talk! Haters mean you are doing something right. Keep doin your thing!
  • edited December 2011
    Some ppl just arn't happy so they want you to feel what they feel. Always kill them with kindness. What goes around come around. Stay nice and always smile that gets them really angry. Ha I love smileing in my hater face even when it ain't a damn thang funny. It keep them guessing!
  • EliNickEliNick member
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    They are just hating because they see the relationship you and your DH have, a man they see is committed to you, threw you a surprise engagement party, beautiful wedding, etc.  It's their own insecurities about their own relationships.  Blah. I agree, why not support each other and be happy for you?!  Marriage is a wonderful thing that should be supported if and when it is entered into.  Oh wellz. Brush your shoulders off!
  • edited December 2011
    Honnneee please. You know you can't make trash smell good by spraying it with perfume! Next time you see any of them wave "Hi Hater!". Ni**as and flies, the more I know ni**as, the better I like flies.
  • kaykay211kaykay211 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone. It's just a dang shame that's all. Like seriously I always try to be the one looking for the good out of the bad but I never get that from others. I'm going to start just going off on people and stop being polite and p.c. Alf- YES THAT IS THE SAME PERSON (so I should have figured lol)
  • edited December 2011
    You wedding was beautiful and so were you and DH.  I say let them hate and enjoy your marital bliss.
  • tamtam7tamtam7 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    OMG!  I love the way that your FI proposed.  That is sooooo sweet that he gave you a surprise engagement party.  How cool is that!!!! Anyways, now to your post.  Don't sweat the haters.  I've learned to appreciate it them.  They bring up my self-esteem.  I figure that if their hating on me, maybe my life don't suck as much as I thought it did.  LOL!  As I told another knottie, in the words of the great poet and philosopher Jayz "You gotta get that dirt off your shoulders!"  Take a cue from our president.  See the link below: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_C791egEsc&feature=related
  • edited December 2011
    Let the hate girl. There will always be some around.
    Lovin Kimmie
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