African American Weddings

Repost... The Deets (**warning**long)

Hmmm, there’s so much!!! I’ve been sitting here thinking of where tha hayle to begin??? But I know my gurls so I’ll get to tha juicy parts!! LOL!!! Ok tha haters…. Well, on my side there was my usual group of cuz’s that come to only talk shyt bout folk and want a reason to act a dayum fool!! Any parties that I have had in the past 3 years they have not come to a single one!! From my son’s birthday, my birthday, my housewarming and cookouts (bout 5 events). Of course they did not rsvp, even after numerous calls. Anyway, they were told they could wait because they were not on the list…. So they proceed to cursing and getting loud at the reception hall, Frankie & Neffie style!! So leave in a blazing of fiery glory and throwing up middle fingers!! They were not the only ones told to wait, others waited no problem and were let in.. His side… His loca cuz from outta town that I did not like. Off sight something bout her rubbed me tha wrong way and it worsened evrryday!! She came ova from thrus – sat. Thrus tryna party but we still had favors to do. I didn’t say nuffin cuz I know it wlda came out wrong, someone else told her to sit her azz down n help. I was deathly ill, sinus pressure, headache, stopped up, runny nose, all tha above!! This chick wanna take pics of me!! Um excuse me, NO. she aint catch the hint when I turned my head and covered my face. She finally ask so r u jus covering ur face on purpose?? I say I am not feeling well and don’t wanna take pics, u can take some 2morrow. Well this heifer keep snapping and say I got u anyway… evrrytime I look up she at my home all up in errything!! On Friday she tryna go to bachelor party, at the cookout doing nuffin to help, drinking up all tha liquor after she tried to take her coronas with her the previous nite and was all up at rehearsal… Look I neva met her b4 talked to her b4 and she all in my face like we like that. Too much too soon!! Here’s tha toppers that make me thank Jesus I changed my life…… ((drumroll)) during my private time with bm’s and mom before tha wedding, she come ova with her husband!! I got a house full of half naked ladies tryna get ready and she come ova!! I aint invite her and dh said lata he aint invite her; that was an invasion, yet I said nuffin. I told her husband he had to go tho…NO MEN!! Then after we are done taking pictures at tha church…… she call for dh to stop taking pics so he can let her in to leave kids at our home while she & hubby go 2 reception!! U gotta b freaking kidding me right??!! On my wedding day u want me to stop what iam doing to cater to yo monkey ash?? HAYLE TO DA NAWWWW!! She was at house night b4, right b4 ceremony and that tackhead aint say nuffin 2 me bout it. She called dh a couple of times while we taking pics… bish y u tryin so hard to get n my home when I’m not there???!! She ended up having kids stay at dh sister hotel room. Which is what she shlda done from tha start!!! So at reception she gives a speech… taking bout how she jealous I’ll have more time to get to know him, when they had their “moment” (WTF!!), how marvelous dh is, and her husband is ok. Then proceeds to call me “stuck up but good for him”. AWWWW SHEIT!!! All I can say is the Lord held me close, cuz I saw my self doing sooo many thangs to her!! She don’t know me!! Hater Drama Ends there I'll do full day wedding recap real soon.. 

Re: Repost... The Deets (**warning**long)

  • braxtongirlbraxtongirl member
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    OK That was just too much for me! I know that Jesus changing your life after hearing that you didn't do anything because I am not sure that I wouldn't have lost my Jesus! Way too far on Day One! I can't believe that you let her speak at the reception. I only let my MOHs/Matron and Best Men Speak! Girl, you are a good one!
  • edited December 2011
    I didnt let her speak!!! My coordinator let her speak... y idk.. Next thing I know she getting up on tha mic and talking
  • edited December 2011
    Girl you done made me mad and I aint even related. That is a trip.
  • edited December 2011
    Yeah, u and my family!! The women were in an uproar!! She left real quick after getting warned and threatened.. Main reason I aint sweat it on my day. My fam wld tear into that ash. They was jus waiting to catch her in the bathroom or parking lot.  I wasnt bout to let anyone make my beautiful day ugly!!
  • edited December 2011
    Girl you did good! Because when she starting showin' out on the first day I would have kindly gave her the bitness!!!
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  • milana1023milana1023 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Girl that was just too much. I found myself gettin a little heated over here. Not sure I would have handled that well at all. But good for you for keeping it together. And congrats again!
  • edited December 2011
    U did the right thing; although idk that I could have! The good thing about all this is u come out smelling like a rose. Frankie, Neffie, and loco cuz showed how big a fools they really are. So shame! No need to show out and look crazy on your wedding day! IMO, nothing looks worse than a beautiful woman, all dressed up, and actin a fool. With all that said, I would've enjoyed that show. Man I wish your fam couldve cut em up in the parkin lot! His cuz had to be lookin uber stupid saying she's jealous of the stuck up bride. And calling her DH out like that? Oh man! That video MUST get posted on YT (you tube)! Congrats again hun!!!
  • OFFOFF
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Wow! I'm proud of you for keeping cool. Once she called me stuck up I would walked over and cut her with the cake knife.
  • edited December 2011
    LOL!!! OFF u 2 dayum much!!
  • edited December 2011
    girl when I originally read your recap in the TEASER post...I was like "OMG, I cannot believe people would do that to someone on their wedding day!!"...I commend you for taking the higher road and not getting with DH cousin after what she said & I'm glad to hear your fam was not havin' it with her either...now why your cousins come up in there actin' all Frankie & Neffie like that?!...man that is just un-freakin-believable!!...but again from your pics, you & DH handled it all in stride and looked like the queen & king that you two are, so it's all good in the neighborhood!! (but quite as kept -- your cousins and DH's cousin would be on my S list and I'm talking about shank list...LOL!)
  • edited December 2011
    Honestly, I'm beyond words bout how heated I am. She's a loser. She's on my buss em up list. And Neffie & Frankie been on s list.. stay away list. Too much drama and dont feel like dealing with all they negativity..What I really wanted came thru and that is what matters most.  Im be like Blue's fav Katt Williams and love my haters they keep me motivated. Obviously I'm doing sumn right.
  • braxtongirlbraxtongirl member
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I am sorry! I had to post again. I am seriously heated over here! I just need a time machine so I can go and whoop their a$$es on Day one! I am just really really heated. I can't even imagine how I would have acted. Girl you are truly a child of God.
  • missevansmissevans member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    @ Miabride, you are a girl after my own heart.  I love the term "shanked".  This is one of those instances where she would need to be shanked repeatedly with a rusty knife.... Sorry for you girlie! 
  • ladylumladylum member
    500 Comments Fourth Anniversary
    edited December 2011
    I have to agree with OFF on this one. That is uncalled for! Why do people have to act up and then look at you like you crazy if you tell them they acting like a fool?
  • edited December 2011
    I'm over here about to take my earrings off I'm so heated!!! That's crazy... You were awesome during the whole situation.. Starting today I am going to pray for peace and patience because I see right now people like to push your buttons on "Your Day"..
  • edited December 2011
    Yeah I'm usually tha first to react and set it off... So not doing it is taxing. But I didnt want to give her the power to see me act up and get satisfaction from pissing me off.  
  • trevette1981trevette1981 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I'm glad you kept your cool! That was completely rude and uncalled for. Who does that sort of thing? People can't just be polite? Geez, where are the manners?Then trying to get the kids to your house? She needed to stop! Glad you let it go!
  • edited December 2011
    You have the patience of idk what because I would have beat her down. Lord...
    Lovin Kimmie
  • edited December 2011
    Oh lord... was she serious?!  Some folks just have no class.  You know what you're married and it looks like beyond the craziness you wonderful and beautiful day.   
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  • edited December 2011
    See God has moved and worked in your life, I am still a work in progress. with that being said, if that was me I would have kicked her a$$ clear to Jupiter. What kind of woman would impose on a bride? And try to leave her damn rugrats at your house to boot. Girl bye! Then she gonna stand up in the middle of your reception and toast to you being stuck up but good for her kin folk? I would have had her escorted out immediately after. See, this is the prime example of why you gotta put your foot down to unwanted and uninvited guest. She would have never gotten into my house for none of the preliminary stuff (ie get togethers, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, etc) and she damn sure would not have been at my wedding and reception. Yea, God has moved in your life because I cannot forsee taking some mess like that. you truly had some drama on your hands.
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  • edited December 2011
    All I can say is Im pissed and proud all at the same time. Cause me and her woulda had to throw down. Congrats on you day!!!
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