Ok, Im back and need some honest opinions, hopefully you'll remember the drama with WC/ AP (thats FI's bestie). Well anyway im chatting with AP's ex on FB her and AP are still cool they talk, Im having a gtg next week and shes coming, so anyway I guess she knows what was going on, during the convo it came up and she told me how ridiculous she thought it was and that she would suggest I K.I.M and not fall into that foolishness..then she told me while speaking to AP he doesnt even sound excited about his own wedding and he is not into the BS that WC created and is kind of disappointed that my FI wont be at his and that he cant be at ours..So here is the thing, ive told FI to talk to him and tell him if he can get the time that we would pay for the majority of trip for him to be there (im that type of person) but i dont understand why this weddng sh*t is such a mute issue, I even told FI that he can go to theirs without me, its like that..i told him to tell AP, if my presence is an issue I dont want him to feel like FI should be excluded, be there for your friend.whatever. But I know he wont talk to him, im at a point where im like just leave it alone, but im that type of woman where i dont want to see a seperation with them over some stupid sh*t that WC created.I thought about telling AP to meet me somewhere so that i can present this to him, or having him come over to the house where FI, AP and I can discuss this..but I dont want to look like a fool, should I just leave this alone for good? dam* my stuborness :-(