When my FI asked me to marry him I decided that my step dad would give me away because for the last 9 years of my life he has been my father figure. Well he pasted away this past June and I took a break away from my wedding planning. When I picked up everyone was asking well are you going to get your real dad to give you away now?? NO! My mother is going to give me away! Lately people have been saying well you should let your dad do it...its not that common for your mother to do it! I dont want to make my dad feel bad but lets me honest he has not been there for me like a father should! Although I have forgave him....I dont want him to give me away. His entire family is also coming for the wedding. How can I tell him without trying to be funny or upsetting his side of the family because I know they are expecting him to give me away.....