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Have any of you ever gotten cold feet?

Lords knows it has been coming and going with me. I kind of feel bad, but some days I don't. Any of you experiencing this?

Re: Have any of you ever gotten cold feet?

  • edited December 2011
    Yes, sometimes more than others. I have been alone for so long that sometimes FI gets on my nerves. It never lasts long, but there are times when I open the fridge I want to see MY food not eaten or my bed made when no one is in it. Got to take the good with the bad. Besides if momma ain't happy, no one is happy!
  • edited December 2011
    I did initially but now I am ready to just get married already and get it over with. It is a feeling that will come and go, so don't feel bad about it. It goes along with the territory.
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    edited December 2011
    I do just about every other week! One week I feel good about it the next week he does something to remind me of why we are getting married. I know the feeling. I think a lot of it has the do with the stress of the wedding planning and then whatever else is going on in your life. Just hang in there!
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm with Mrs. Clinton, at first it came and I was a little nervous. But now, I just want to get married and be done with it! I can't wait!
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  • edited December 2011
    I know I have. Especially in the beginning. Only because I still had my hang ups from my first marriage. I convinced him for us to go to pre marital counseling and we're good. Got everything out on the table and now he just gets on my nerves. I'll take that...it comes with the territory.
  • withmikewithmike member
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    edited December 2011
    Before I got married I had cold feet sometimes.  I never wanted to call it off but I simply had gotten use to living with myself and my daughter.  Sometimes I just wanted to be alone, but now that we are married, I love having him around.  I like my space still but I like it filled with him more:-).
  • edited December 2011
    Um, yes.  In a word.  I'm 35, have my own house, my own everything.  I'm even uncomfortable sometimes with the idea of living with someone besides my dog. :)  But then the cold feet go away.  Friends and family are laughing at me but I'm serious when I say that I need one of the BMs or MsOH (I have two - my two sisters) to bring me a shot the morning of and to keep me from fainting before we walk out there. LOL.  Men aren't the only ones with cold feet.  Heck, women have interesting, independent lives too!
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