African American Weddings

~~KIR pt 20 lol~~

Do you think your spouse will ever know everything about you & if not do u think it's fair to keep something from them?If you were given the pass to have one more night of banging holes in the wall, sweaty s** with someone from your past, without any consequence would you do it?And, if you could meet your great grandparents or great grandchildren (got this from someone) which one and why?ya'll know the rules

Re: ~~KIR pt 20 lol~~

  • edited December 2011
    I think somethings a girl should never tell. I have been honest with him, but some info from the past, some I have forgotten about and remember, he just don't need to know. I think you will never know someone 100%, especially if you did not grow up or raised in the same household.Hell naw for the past ex sex. I would rather meet my great grandchildren because I was fortunate to grow up to around age 10 with my great grandpa in my life. I would like to see what I've done as a parent have an impact on my children's children.


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  • edited December 2011
    I don't think he will ever know everything about me.  Some things are better left unsaid, like something stupid, meaningless and harmless you did when you were drunk and in college that would have absolutely no impact on his life or your life with him.  I'm sure the same is true for him.Nope, because my FI is the only person I have ever been sexually compatible with...there was always something wrong when I had "relations" with other guys.  Always something that didn't feel quite right and most left me still feeling unsatisfied...so, nope.  Mr. C is the only one I want.This one is tough, but maybe I would like to meet my great grandchildren, to see what became of my grandchildren and the similarities and differences between them.
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  • edited December 2011
    1) naw, he'll never know ER'THANG about me cuz I'm too complex; hayle I DON'T KNOW ER'THANG about my damn self just yet...LOL!  ;) 2) N/A (married my high school sweetheart - i.e. he's the first & only) 3) I would pick my great grandchildren because I would want to see if any of me or DH came through the bloodlines and if any info about us was passed on by our sons to their children and so on...
  • edited December 2011
    Do you think your spouse will ever know everything about you & if not do u think it's fair to keep something from them? P will NEVER know everything about me as I am still learning things about myself. I believe it's ok for you not to know every little thing about your SO and vice versa. In some cases the saying is true "what you don't know won't hurt you". If you were given the pass to have one more night of banging holes in the wall, sweaty s** with someone from your past, without any consequence would you do it? Nah....I've taught P to do it how I like it. No need to go backward cuz he scratches all my itches...some I didn't know I had! ;) And, if you could meet your great grandparents or great grandchildren (got this from someone) which one and why? Probably my great grandchildren. It would be so interesting to see how they turned out. And it would be so emotional to meet my direct descendants.
  • ciliajonesciliajones member
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    edited December 2011
    I dont think he would know everything about me. He knows a great deal bc I met him when I just started to live (18yrs old), but at the same token- I might not know everything about him...(this got me thinkin..lol) Would I have hot sex with an ex- probably not bc I dont have anybody that compares. HOWEVER there are a couple of people from the past that I wish I would have sampled the goodies.. hmmm lol I definitley would love to meet my great granchildren. My fathers grandparents are still alive to this day..WHOO HOO
  • edited December 2011
    Do you think your spouse will ever know everything about you & if not do u think it's fair to keep something from them? Heck no! b/c if he did..child, homey would run far far away..LOL I do think it's fair..boo doesn't need to know everything and I don't want to know every single thing he has done or encountered...If you were given the pass to have one more night of banging holes in the wall, sweaty s** with someone from your past, without any consequence would you do it?I plead the fifth on that one...LOLAnd, if you could meet your great grandparents or great grandchildren (got this from someone) which one and why? Umm..I would most def want to meet both..I would love to know more about my family history and also learn and see how my seeds look and act once I leave this earth.. LOL
  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    Do you think your spouse will ever know everything about you & if not do u think it's fair to keep something from them? You can’t really ever know EVERYTHING about a person. I prefer it that way. We have the rest of our lives to spend together, so we need to keep learning about each other. Granted, you need to share the important things. I don’t want to wake up one day and find out that you’re mother had a goat fetish. Shish like that I need to know… crazy runs in the blood stream. If you were given the pass to have one more night of banging holes in the wall, sweaty s** with someone from your past, without any consequence would you do it? Oooh that’s hard. I couldn’t because the only person I’d choose to do it with (my first real adult relationship), I’d probably end up attach to him again emotionally. Plus, there’d always be consequences because my conscience would never let me sleep. And, if you could meet your great grandparents or great grandchildren (got this from someone) which one and why? Def my great grandparents. That’s such a rich source of historical knowledge. They would be able to tell me about the period that they lived in but also a little about when their parents lived. Ancestry.com just hasn’t been able to help me fill out my family tree the way that I want to.
  • trevette1981trevette1981 member
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    edited December 2011
    Do you think your spouse will ever know everything about you & if not do u think it's fair to keep something from them? Nope, he won't. I don't think he needs to know everything. i.e. my sophomore yr. of college comes to mind.LOLIf you were given the pass to have one more night of banging holes in the wall, sweaty s** with someone from your past, without any consequence would you do it? Nope.And, if you could meet your great grandparents or great grandchildren (got this from someone) which one and why? My great grand kids. (Grew up knowing one great grandpa and one of my great gandmas is still alive.) I'd like to see how they look, see how they are doing in school, see if they have a family. Just see if all the work my SO and I plan to do on them pans out!LOL!
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