The holidays are approaching and so is the drama. My FI and I are torn about thanksgiving. My family is really small, my mother is single and my sister has moved out of state, which leaves just me and my mom for the holiday. My mom wants to cook a huge dinner for just us two. This makes no sense to me. I love my mom to death, but the holidays are usually sad and boring. My mom is a stubborn loner! My FI's family does it big on the holiday, they are so much fun. They have offered for my mother to join them on the holiday; however my mother doesn’t want to join in because my FI's family is Apostolic and she doesn’t share their beliefs. I told her they are nice people and she would really enjoy herself, she doesn’t care. She is dead set on cooking this huge meal and renting movies to watch for the whole night. What should I do?