My best friend and MOH is planning my bach party for the night before the wedding in Vegas and has been getting travel details from our friends to help her coordinate a timeline. She was sharing the details about travel plans and mentioned two friends that were coming. How about I didn't even know they were coming. Neither of them sent back the rsvp card and my deadline was over 2 weeks ago. I'm not mad about it I just think it is a bit odd not to send back a yes to a destination wedding.