African American Weddings

RSVP deadline ignored

My best friend and MOH is planning my bach party for the night before the wedding in Vegas and has been getting travel details from our friends to help her coordinate a timeline.  She was sharing the details about travel plans and mentioned two friends that were coming.  How about I didn't even know they were coming.  Neither of them sent back the rsvp card and my deadline was over 2 weeks ago.  I'm not mad about it I just think it is a bit odd not to send back a yes to a destination wedding. 
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Re: RSVP deadline ignored

  • tyboydtyboyd member
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    edited December 2011
    I think it's weird not to send one back to an in town wedding! They gone be looking stupid on the day when they trying to get in the reception room....
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_rsvp-deadline-ignored?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:118e2ec7-cf0e-4c37-9973-b93e26487095Post:e88ea420-a86a-477a-a02e-a7378a7de22e">Re: RSVP deadline ignored</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think it's weird not to send one back to an in town wedding! <strong>They gone be looking stupid on the day when they trying to get in the reception room....
    </strong>Posted by tyboyd[/QUOTE]

    This!!!
  • edited December 2011
    LOL....You know how black folks are. Why can't we get it together? 
  • edited December 2011
    Ugghhh....especially a destination wedding!! But I'm with Tyboyd, they can come & stand outside of the reception looking crazy cause they don't have a seat. I sure hope I don't have to embarass someone like that, but it'll be their fault for not rsvping.
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  • wallacjewallacje member
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    edited December 2011
    I know I'm going to have this problem.  How rude and inconsiderate.

    If I have to call 90 people, I'm going to be highly irritated!
  • tyboydtyboyd member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_rsvp-deadline-ignored?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:118e2ec7-cf0e-4c37-9973-b93e26487095Post:e5c75f3e-52f7-4934-84f5-64ddc4d9ee80">Re: RSVP deadline ignored</a>:
    [QUOTE]I know I'm going to have this problem.  How rude and inconsiderate. If I have to call 90 people, I'm going to be highly irritated!
    Posted by wallacje[/QUOTE]

    Well, get prepared! lol. I txt ppl twice the week of the {first} deadline. At this point, OH WELL!
  • edited December 2011
    I didn't follow-up with anyone.  At this point I don't really care anymore.  It'll be just like an old school house party, hot and sweaty.
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