I just have to vent to an audiance who I am not provoking to talk trash! I finally told my mom that I would appreciate it if she would ask me about my wedding planning sometime! We've been engaged since April 2008 and she has never asked me once! We are now at about 10 months and I finally broke and told her that it hurts me taht everyone including family, friends, and FI family knows and acts like they care more than her. This especially makes me mad becuase she is being so selfish and living with her boyfriend (since my dad passed away in November 2006) which everyones hates, for good reason! I would like to have one parent physically and mentally there! She is just too preoccupied with herself and her bf. I'm the first of her kids to get married and she is/ says she can not help what-so-ever (she is singing a different tune from a year ago!) So FI and I are footing the bill ourselves while finishing up school. It just PISSES me off how much she does not care. She pretty much told me that I need to tell her and she shouldn't have to ask "how's the wedding planning going?". How hard is that? Just show me that you remember! Thanks for listening.
