OMG yall I have come to the conclusion that it has to be some sort of rare disease when men actually get involved and stay involved in the wedding. I mean I have had to do everything by myself, like really dude am I gone have to pick out your underwear too. So now I am still trying to get thing done on my end and for the wedding & since I am buying his ring all I ask is that he choose one. He tell me to get whatever I like as if Im the one wearing it! So I send him so links and photos...he can't decide! I like silver but he likes gold, but he also likes both these rings. I think they would both look nice on him but idk. What do you ladies think? The gold of course cost more which is another reason I probably don't know lol