I'm bored... and I have tons of questions floating around in my head. Let's play a game to get a discussion started. I'll pose a question and you can answer.
To start:
Decisions are being made right now. The question is: Are you making them for yourselve, or are you letting others make them for you?
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Are on the way! The rest don't matter... FINAL COUNT~!
Re: Questions
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Now, years later, I am making all the decisions myself. FI will watch a wedding show with me every now and again and chime in on what he does not like and what he does like.
I will ask my sis for her opinion but for the most part, it is all me!
[QUOTE]I have been making all the decisions myself for this wedding. FI gives input but he is like whatever you want just do it. Occasionally I may ask someone(TK"s) their opinion but its been Me, Myself And I.
Posted by dlthompson22[/QUOTE]
This! Cause in the end FI and I are paying for it all so I don't want any regrets.
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Second question: Definitely a destination wedding. We'd love to get married in Jamaica or Tuscany. Run off, get married and come back happy
[QUOTE]My FI is the biggest influence on my decisions. He had a hand in my dress, it being a destination wedding, the location, etc. Dress: He doesn't like the traditional American wedding dress, so I searched for something different. Found a designer; he picked 5 dresses he liked; and I picked from one of those. DW: He thinks 60 to 80 people are a lot of people. Kept getting on my case about my family being invited and that we would have to serve them meat. I finally said that it sounds like he wants to go off and get married somewhere just the two of us, and he said he did. Bam, destination wedding. Location: He didn't want anything touristy or just the resorts. Wanted the real experience. I searched B&B reviews until I got to a place where people said they love and it gives them the real experience. Booked it. The destination: He wanted to travel to a place that is influenced by African cultures. (Me too as a matter of fact) Picked Jamaica because the price was right. In life, I let him lead in many decisions too because he has a track record of making good decisions, so I trust him. He has helped to guide me in a more balanced direction which is what I needed.
Posted by Fabbiegirl[/QUOTE]
wait is he saying your guest list is too high because you have to serve them meat or that its too high period? How many of the 60-80 are your family already?
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