Well my FI wasn't feeling Vegas,at all. BUT he did agree that we can have a smaller wedding/reception with close freind/family and then have a bbq with extended family and friends afterwards. So I'm happy, we'll save thousands of dollars and we even talked about moving the wedding up a year because of the money we will be saving...so I'll be a 2011 Bride now. Right now I am doing my research trying to find a NEW more intimate, local place to get married. I'm already starting to feel less stressed....Yayyy!