AW: 99 days

melissa82

Holy sh!t, it's double digits. Commence heart attack.

sarack

omg! congrats!

Tygirljojo

You'll be fine. You pretty much have everything taken care of, right?

melissa82

It's just invitations and a million little things--wedding bands (OK, not so little), finding readings, picking songs and telling the band if they need to learn any, rehearsal dinner (Mike's mom is handling but we haven't heard anything), programs, favor bags, OOT bags, my dress which is still being made in SF, don't know if I need undergarments for it, veil which is also being made in SF--haven't even seen anything for it,  escort cards, picking cake, finalizing menu, bparty and shower dresses to buy, finalizing shuttle--damn just remembered they didn't get back to me, marriage license, etc., etc., etc.!! That's just off the top of my head. I know it'll all get done, but it's starting to feel overwhelming, especially since a lot of those things have to happen in NJ or SF or at a certain time.

Tygirljojo

Yeah, I can understand it becoming overwhelming. If you don't have a checklist, I would start one, ideally like an Excel spreadsheet or something so you can track things as they progress. And put on a deadline (i.e. invites and figuring out songs for the band to learn would probably be sooner rather than later). I think a checklist will help alleviate that OMG feeling.

melissa82

Yeah, I've had a checklist with deadlines for a while. It actually makes it worse for me because I have a whole crapload of stuff I gave myself a deadline of 9/30 to do and a lot of it isn't done.Having the checklist does help me sleep (because otherwise I'd lay awake thinking of all the things I need to remember), but I think once I can deal with my dress (in two weeks), get my invitations done and get through my best friend's wedding (in three weeks), I'll feel better and like I have less big things hanging over my head.

karebear219

Omg! Hang in there you can do it!

jennlin

haha we had our wedding bands delivered the evening before we got married since our jeweler didn't finish when he promised.....so don't procrastinate!