ok so we met with the dj last night......LOVED HIM!!! he's from New Orleans just like FI so they hit it off really well......on to the help portion of my post....the dj has convinced FI that he would be disrespecting tradtion if we dont do a second line at the wedding....now the wedding is exactly 4 WEEKS away and this fool got me looking for customized handkerchiefs and umbrellas........where can i find this ish for the low low ?!??!!??!