Well you ladies were here when I told you that my MOH and her partner didnt order their dresses. This is the update. I just called her and told her to come as a guest. She has been ignoring everyone including the other bridesmaid and my MOM. I talked to her ex-spouse tonight and we compared notes. It wasnt pretty at all. I let her partner to just get the baby her dress and I will take care of her hair and makeup cuz she is my mini me and i love her so much. I then called the MOH and told her to stop trying to get her dress and just come as a guest. She acted like i was a gnat bothering and gave me an "ok" response. I am so happy this is over now I can enjoy the last six weeks and get a good nights sleep.