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Baesmom

how many of you are NOT wearing Veils?  I dont think i want to wear one.. I found this really pretty headband that i think i like instead. I dont know.. here is my dress. i dont think it needs a veil but what do you think?

http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_Charmeuse-V-neck-halter-with-ruched-surplice-bodice.-SV9563_Bridal-Gowns-Shop-By-Designer-Galina-Signature

teamUS2012

Gorgeous dress.

I'm making my own veil. I want something to pass down to my daughter. And if I enjoy making it, I'm going to start a line of affordable, but elegant and high quality veils.

Anyway, I think there's a veil for every dress. But at the end of the day, you're the bride, so it's your choice. We're exchanging vows separately from our "big day." So I'm wearing a fascinator and birdcage veil when we exchange vows, and wearing the handmade veil for the big day.

I think you'll be gorgeous in that dress either way.

tyboyd

I didn't wear a veil. I've never understood the concept. lol. I had a hair flower from Charming Charlie. And I don't think I'd want one with your dress ether. Good luck.

teamUS2012

I think veils were really (traditionally) for virgins.

Now that maintaining virginity until marriage is so uncommon, they're just viewed as a traditional bridal accessory. Definitely not mandatory, but if you ask me NOTHING about a wedding is mandatory except the license.

tyboyd

I was already married for our vow renewal, so... yeah.... LOL!

teamUS2012

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[QUOTE]I was already married for our vow renewal, so... yeah.... LOL!
Posted by tyboyd[/QUOTE]


Oooh can you tell me more about that? We're exchanging vows in March (maybe sooner), but we're not having our "big day" until December. I find that the brides elsewhere on TK look down on this... they keep referring to it as a "fake wedding" saying that it's deceptive. LOL!  But we're not keeping the vows a secret or anything. I'm sure I'll put a FB status up... lol.

Anyway, how did you do it?

empegues

When I first started planning everything, I didn't want to wear a veil either.  I thought they were frilly nonsense that would make me feel like I was wearing a costume, lol.  But after trying on several dresses and putting on a longer veil that wasn't so puffy, I completely changed my mind.

This is the one time in life that I get to be a bride and everything that comes with it, including the traditions.  So long story short, I want my wedding to feel like a wedding - veil included. 

I do love the headband though!

MsAmeera25

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[QUOTE]When I first started planning everything, I didn't want to wear a veil either.  I thought they were frilly nonsense that would make me feel like I was wearing a costume, lol.  But after trying on several dresses and putting on a longer veil that wasn't so puffy, I completely changed my mind. <strong>This is the one time in life that I get to be a bride and everything that comes with it, including the traditions.  So long story short, I want my wedding to feel like a wedding - veil included</strong>.  I do love the headband though!
Posted by empegues[/QUOTE]

I agree 100% with PP. Ultimately its your decision but the veil makes me feel like a bride.

faithlady

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[QUOTE]When I first started planning everything, I didn't want to wear a veil either.  I thought they were frilly nonsense that would make me feel like I was wearing a costume, lol.  But after trying on several dresses and putting on a longer veil that wasn't so puffy, I completely changed my mind. This is the one time in life that I get to be a bride and everything that comes with it, including the traditions.  So long story short, I want my wedding to feel like a wedding - veil included.  I do love the headband though!
Posted by empegues[/QUOTE]

<div>This is why I ultimately chose to wear a veil also.</div>

2010Bride2be

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[QUOTE]When I first started planning everything, I didn't want to wear a veil either.  I thought they were frilly nonsense that would make me feel like I was wearing a costume, lol.  But after trying on several dresses and putting on a longer veil that wasn't so puffy, I completely changed my mind. This is the one time in life that I get to be a bride and everything that comes with it, including the traditions.  So long story short, I want my wedding to feel like a wedding - veil included.  I do love the headband though!
Posted by empegues[/QUOTE]

This!
I didn't want a veil originally either. But when I tried one on, I had to have it! It was actually one of the last things I bought...like 2 weeks before the wedding!!

And FYI...I wore a headband and the veil.

mikimoto6

That is a beautiful gown.  If you choose not to wear a headband, you'll look lovely.  If you want to wear a veil, you should consider a very simple one that falls long behind you with no trim or embellishment. 

In my experience, many grooms look forward to seeing their brides in veils.  I think you will be beautiful either way, but wear what will ultimately make you happy.  

djscat

I think you should go to David's Bridal try on the sample of your dress with all the different types of veils they have.  If you find one you love then great if not they don't wear one.  Yet I do think you should at least try them on before you decide. Like the PP said you might change your mind. Good luck!

ymw6110

Love your dress! No need for a veil

Ksk2012

I always say do what you like! But If you want maybe a veil for the wedding ceremony and the headband for reception. But I am not stuck on a veil either. Not sure how that will play out with me too!

alpresberry

I'm not wearing a veil either, but it is definitely up to you choice. I simply didn't want to wear one, so I'm not. I'm also having an outdoor wedding so I didn't want it flying all over the place being a distraction.  I'm still in limbo if I want a headband, flower, or some other blingy hair accessory.  Good luck!

Baesmom

Thanks ladies.. when i tried on the dress the lady put a veil on and i liked it.. im still up in the air.  I think im going to let my mom help  me decide lol!!! When in doubt ask mommy. 
Once its decided I'll be sure to let you know.