this is a spin-off of Dantemccauleys post. I have 4 bm's. All of them are self absorbed. I've never been the center of attention nor do I care to be, however for just once, i'd like things to be about me.
It all started with MOH's dress and how she wanted to be different. I told her she had to stick with a long dress (**which she STILL doesn't have**) otherwise- IDGAF
then MOH doesn't get along with bm1- so she asked if she needed to contact her for anything, I said no, i just ask that you act friendly for 6-12hrs. i proceeded to email bm1 asking if that was a problem. she went on to say how their friendship would never be the same however nope- no problem. i fwd said message to MOH she went into a rant about how she's 32 and she don't need friends. again - IDGAF
BM2- is planning a bach shower for me with bm1 sans MOH in case MOH doesn't come through. bm1 telling me its not a bach party because thats MOH job while bm2 telling me it is. I told them both to nevermind and drop it.
BM3- i got about 40 emails from her complaining about EVERYTHING. her dress, her stomach, how cold her toes are going to be and where she's going to get cute shoes so her toes dont freeze. again- I REALLY DGAF
Well sat i had my hair/makeup trial and the girl told me the prices. I bcc'd them all and told them her prices and to let me know if they want it done, i would need a prepayment by dec 1st and she would write up a contract. I got a barrage of idiotic reply emails. that was IT. I replied all them back and said NEVERMIND. figure it out. just be at hotel by 11am. well MOH didn't like that. apparently I was rude and she would never do me like that. (this from the girl who texts me shyt like "while you were out loving your friends last night my baby dad was hugged up with some girl. ". <-- again, IDGAF. don't EVER make me feel guilty for having fun while you up under some dbag that don't want you. anyways, MOH wants to get together evening after work to "talk about it" which i'm assuming is code for "tell me how much of a B**** I am". so i don't know how this is going to turn out. Tomorrow i'm writing down all the things i like and don't like about her so if this turns into a T bashing party i'm locked and loaded.
END RANT. (thanks for listening!)
UPDATE: None of these girls have asked where in the process I am in planning, if I need help, they don't know i've had a hair trial, and MOH hasn't even asked what my dress looks like.
