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Didn't Get the Memo...E-Pics (PIP)

So yesterday must've been call/text/relay a message to me about why you aren't invited to the wedding & "where is my invitation" day...Why didn't I get that memo??? These people are killing me!!! Can someone give me that message again about the nice way to tell ppl "u aren't invited?"


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  • Very nice. I especially like the color coordination  with the shirts. Girl I havent even sent out invitations and I already got emails and texts about if they are invited to the wedding.... I am just thinking in my mind.....Please take several seats.....
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  • Cute pics.  :)  My thought is if you didn't get or don't get an invitation don't ask because it is not going to change anything.  You still aren't getting one or won't be invited.  Sheesh. 



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    [QUOTE]Very nice. I especially like the color coordination  with the shirts. Girl <strong>I havent even sent out invitations and I already got emails and texts about if they are invited to the wedding.... I am just thinking in my mind.....Please take several seats</strong>.....
    Posted by RanyattaCasey[/QUOTE]

    THIS!!! I'm not sending out invitations for another 2 months -_-

    @island EXACTLY!! 1st off it's very tacky for you to contact me asking for an invitation & furthermore, the fact that you asked isn't going to change the fact that you aren't invited! _/ _/ _/

    Thanks ladies :)
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  • Love the pictures! The progression of my responses: " due to space and finances we won't be able to invite everyone but you wanting to celebrate with us means a lot" Then : " Aw wish we could invite you" Now: " it ain't for everybody , my wedding isn't a cookout"
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  • Great pics!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Didn't Get the Memo...E-Pics (PIP) : THIS!!! I'm not sending out invitations for another 2 months -_- @island EXACTLY!! 1st off it's very tacky for you to contact me asking for an invitation & furthermore,<strong> the fact that you asked isn't going to change the fact that you aren't invited</strong>! _/ _/ _/ Thanks ladies :)
    Posted by ladycane015[/QUOTE]

    THIS! I'm so tired of people asking where is my invite? Boo.....if we were THAT close....you wouldn't have to ask. Period.
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    [QUOTE]Love the pictures! The progression of my responses: " due to space and finances we won't be able to invite everyone but you wanting to celebrate with us means a lot" Then : " Aw wish we could invite you" Now: "<strong> it ain't for everybody , my wedding isn't a cookout"
    </strong>Posted by M1ssJ[/QUOTE]

    LMBO! Exactly.
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    Cute pics...... My response was, "I am having a small wedding with close friends and family. We just couldn't afford to invite everyone." After that people tended to back off and say, "Oh i understand." or "Oh I know I was just joking." Then they would feel stupid.  
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    [QUOTE]Love the pictures! The progression of my responses: " due to space and finances we won't be able to invite everyone but you wanting to celebrate with us means a lot" Then : " Aw wish we could invite you" Now: " it ain't for everybody , my wedding isn't a cookout"
    Posted by M1ssJ[/QUOTE]

    BOL @ the progression!!! I love it :) & Thanx!!
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  • Thanks everyone :) & I really like 20pearls response lol...I think that should really do the trick! People think that everybody on earth is supposed to be invited to a wedding & like MrsSmith said <strong>"if we were THAT close....you wouldn't have to ask. Period."

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    [QUOTE]Cute pics...... My response was, <strong>"I am having a small wedding with close friends and family. We just couldn't afford to invite everyone."</strong> After that people tended to back off and say, "Oh i understand." or "Oh I know I was just joking." Then they would feel stupid.  
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  • Cute pics! I also like the color combo. My faves are the kissy ones, and next time you box - tuck thumbs IN. Then they won't get broke :).  lol@ m1ssj's cookout!
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  • Lovely pics! I love the color combo! I understand where you are coming from with people asking to come to your wedding....everyone has been saying don't forget to send me an invitation, because they want to come to the wedding. UGH.....I have resorted to telling people that my wedding may just be family only because we both have big families and they take up the bulk of the invitation list...
  • I love the pics...and girl you better you check your email..lol

    You didnt know THE PEOPLE was liking for the verbal invite ! 

    Ladycane: hey girl, Im inviting you to the wedding and you +5
    THE PEOPLE: Girl, yes we'll be with our kids.

    Thats what they looking for. lol. Ima need for THE PEOPLE and the BMs to get they life and in that order !!! lol
  • Tosh ya'lls kids are gonna have insanely beautiful teeth.   how bout insanely beautiful everything.  damn.

    the *boxing* picture - I LUH *swoon*

    Getawayfromme.org:   You can choose between polite and effective

    "Our guestlist is closed but we so love and appreciate you for your interest in our wedding"

    if you feel obligated to be polite, flash that 50 thousand dolla smile at the end of your sentence.
  • lol @ Tash thanx 4 the boxing tip!! Thanks guys :D
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  • Your pics are so cute. Love them... And SMH at people and the invite question.. Who does that.. LOL @ M1ssJ and the cookout. Haaaaaa..
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  • Awwww! Love your epics! Too cute! So, for those peeps that wanted to invite themselves, they received a memo from me stating or me telling them, "hey ...insert name here... I havent talked to tou in like forever! Yes girl i am getting married and we are so excited!!! Thank you so much for wanting to share this time with us! But you know what we need the most, your prayers and support! We would love to have invited everyone that truly supports us and are not there just because, well you know, for the food, or to see what I have or don't have, etc etc. So, Unfortunately due to financial and spacing constraints, we can not invite everyone. Our wedding will be mostly close friends and family."
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  • Awe thanx sultry :D & LMBO @ "the guestlist is closed ::Insert smile::

    @Cha!!!! hahahahaha! Very blunt & Priceless! I especially love I havent talked to you in like forever! ...Thank you so much for wanting to share this time with us! But you know what we need the most, your prayers and support!
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  • Awww! Sweet! Oh and on the self-invites.....#rachet!
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  • haha people think weddings are cookouts for real!!!

    Cha is always so on point i just get annoyed
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  • Very cute E-pics!
    145 Invited image
    65 Cannot wait to party! image
    1 Saving me money! image
    80 Looking for the mailbox image
  • THANK YOU!!!

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