with out sounding like a bitchy birdezilla ??
Out of 4 BMs I now only want to keep 2 of my BMs my MOH (little sis) and BM (my cousin). BM #2 and #3 can go. My little sister and cousin has been supportive and periodically these last couple weeks, they have called and asked me what it is I needed. Is there any DIY projects I need help with and so on. MOH already has her dress BM#1 is going Monday to get hers. Said she has the money and all. Ok cool.
My reasons for wanting them to be out is because of (although the only responsibilities BMs have is to get there dress and show up) I just dont got time for the B.S. I texted BM#3 and asked when she think she could go and get her dress ? She txts me back and say "what type of spaghetti sauce is better than the other ragu or prego ? lol " .Im like huh ? She like answer my question. I say well answer mine 1st. no reply...Im like see she on some B.S...so im cool..im thinking to myself...if you dont want to do it then just say that..know what I mean ?
BM#2 plain and simple she still has drama with GM#2 and some issues going on with her daughter. I completely understand her issue with her daughter and she needs to focus on her but the issues with GM#2..I feel like its time to wipe the tears, pick yourself up and face the reality of their situation and keep it moving. Dont get me wrong, I definitely know what it is to have your feelings hurt..but like they say the TRUTH HURTs.
And im just like Ive been thru it all with these girls, from engagements, loaning out money, letting them borrow my car to roll up on a nicca to see if he at a girl house, babysitting, dudes cheating on them, they cheating on the dudes. and so much more. All im asking is for 1 hour out they day to go pick out a dress, pay dep and be done with it. But no..that seems to be asking too much.
I gave them free range to pick whatever they want and then even said Ok, I picked out a dress for you (according to what I think what look right for their body type) just go try on, take a pic and send it to me and they still wont budge. I feel like if I was to be calling them saying..girl me and FI over here fighting, he cheating, he beating my ass or something else negative about our relationship then they would be all on it. Honestly, because I know they dont care about my wedding like I care I dont even talk about wedding details to them. Only about them getting their dress. I dont ask for their OP's about nothing, my knottie sisters is pretty much the only ones I ask. (im so grateful for yall) Im just not bout to be on the B. S.
So I just want to tell them they out and can just come as guests !
Sorry for the vent.