**waving HEYYY ladies**

tirathemrs

Ive been a lil MIA...had alot going on....

Small Recap...

Fiances mom was diagnosed with breast cancer before he and i met well she got sick about a year and a half ago and basically with all the treatments (kemo and other meds) she got progressively worse, needless to say she never recovered and became totally dependent on someone for everything...she passed on to heaven 11/13, so ive been dealing with that and his emotions (which most of you know men dont know how to really control or handle their emotions especially when it comes to death), wedding plans still in effect but on a brief hold until i feel hes ready to start up with it again...

So im here back to work and trying to focus, especially since i havent been to work since friday (funeral was yesterday)....and trying to get back into the swing of things...either way im still saying HEYYY LADIES I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING GREAT....MUCH LOVE SMOOCHES

dlthompson22

Hey Sissy,
So yeah you just made tears form in my eyes literally. So sad to hear this news. I'll be sure to keep you both in prayers. I cant say I know how you feel because my mom is still here but I will be devasted if it were me. Continue to be strong for FI and God will pull you both thru it.WE are here if you need us.  Love Ya Girl..

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[QUOTE]Ive been a lil MIA...had alot going on.... Small Recap... Fiances mom was diagnosed with breast cancer before he and i met well she got sick about a year and a half ago and basically with all the treatments (kemo and other meds) she got progressively worse, needless to say she never recovered and became totally dependent on someone for everything...she passed on to heaven 11/13, so ive been dealing with that and his emotions (which most of you know men dont know how to really control or handle their emotions especially when it comes to death), wedding plans still in effect but on a brief hold until i feel hes ready to start up with it again... So im here back to work and trying to focus, especially since i havent been to work since friday (funeral was yesterday)....and trying to get back into the swing of things...either way im still saying HEYYY LADIES I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING GREAT....MUCH LOVE SMOOCHES
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keyaira04

I am so sorry for your loss...I lost my grandmother last week due to a long battle with breast cancer as well. 

tirathemrs

THANK YOU LADIES, its really sad to loose someone your close to but when that someone is MOMMY its the worse feeling in the world (although my mom is here i also couldnt imagine the pain) but im learning first hand that despite it all she was loved and he did LITERALLY EVERYTHING HE COULD DO FOR HER WHILE SHE WAS ALIVE, even if it meant we (as a couple) couldnt do anything or go anywhere because he had to take care of her...but all in all im praying for him to heal emotionally, mentally and physically and im sure God will control the rest....

RanyattaCasey

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  You as well Keyaira.  May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family during your time of need.

nbrown501

I am sorry for your lost, yours too keyaira. My prayers are with you and your families. 

MrsBad13

Im so sorry for your and FI lost. Ill be praying for the both of you. I hope he finds comfort knowing his mom is no longer suffering and is in a better place. As well for you to Key. I hope you girls stay wraped up in Gods word as he will get thru this trying time !

footballwife77

i'm so sorry Tira and Keyaira for you loss! my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time (especially during the holidays). and ditto what Ranyatta said -->May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family during your time of need. AMEN

leatba

In Response to Re:waving HEYYY ladies:[QUOTE]i'm so sorry Tira and Keyaira for you loss! my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time especially during the holidays. and ditto what Ranyatta said gt;May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family during your time of need. AMEN Posted by footballwife77[/QUOTE] Amen

keysmit

I am so sorry for your loss.. I am keeping both of your families in prayer..

nursing2u

Tira... and Keyaira.....I am really sorry for your losses...

Tira... I know you are being his backbone and helping him through this time

Keyaira... I know the feeling of losing a grandmother... So I pray for you and your family during this time.

island07b2b

My condolences for the recent loss of your loved one.  Cancer is nasty, I know.  

I am glad to see you back and take all the time you need to before you get back into the full swing of wedding planning.