I just received an email from our Officiant with paperwork for my FI and I to fill out. There is a 7 page document for us to fill out together, and then we each have a 4 pager to fill out separately. I had NO idea what the process would be like. It's a good thing because the more she knows about us the more special the ceremony will be. Sometimes I get caught up in all the reception details, but the ceremony is the most important part!