I texted my MOH that my mom and I went by the Bridal Shower venue and she texts me back saying, "Why when you do wedding stuff you never tell me. I don't feel like I am doing anything."
I then texted her back that most of the time when we do stuff it's not planned at all to be done so it's not like I can call her ahead of time. My mom seriously has like ADHD and if her brain goes somewhere then that is what we are doing. Most times we just so happen to be out somewhere and my mom's brain starts clicking and things get done right then and there.
She has now been ignoring my texts and I think she is trippin, if she wants to be more involved then call my mom. I gave all the bridesmaids my mom's number so if they think of anything to have questions etc they can call her, its not like she doesn't know my mom, she has known her since we were little kids. She is really just tripping about this situation.
I technically am not supposed to be this involved with the shower since it was planned that my MOH, mom, and Godmother would do this. My mom and Godmother chat everyday and when they get clicking things get done. My mom has already said that my MOH needs to call her if she wants any input and my mom wants her input. I am involved because I live with my mom and she accepts my input. My mom and I hang out all the time and like I said if something clicks in her brain for the wedding we are going to do it right then and there and there is no time to be waiting on people and such, most times we are already at the store and etc.
I dunno I will wait and see if she actually texts me back. I think she is just being crazy and if she wants to be involved then she needs to make herself involved.
"Ever Thine, Ever Mine, Ever Ours"
Janae & Olivier
