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invites question

So my family lives all over, and my cousin travis lives in nashville. i go down there from time to time to see him but havent gone in the last few years. he has a sister and stepmom over in colorado. i really only talk to them on FB and thats when they comment on my stuff...theres never a phone call or even emails between us really. My family isnt super close.

Would it be wrong to invite travis, but not his sister who lives in colorado? him and his sister arent super close either

theres a lot of people id like to invite but cant, and im hoping that since its OOT, once the announcements go out, people wont feel as funny for not have being invited. Figure ill just say on the announcment something about a close intimate ceremony, wish everyone could have came, blah blah blah,

ugh...this is the worst part.

Re: invites question

  • Im not the etiquette board  but let me tell u what I did.  I have an uncle, his wife, daughter (27) and son (25)... I only invited the son
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  • LOL, so i wont be wrong for doing that? I mean....whats the worst that can happen? theyll be mad at me from colorado?


    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_invites-question?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:52bc30ba-7f61-4a26-9bd4-7e43d7a39fc8Post:48229548-ce04-4d79-baa5-982d6ff7092d">Re: invites question</a>:
    [QUOTE]Im not the etiquette board  but let me tell u what I did.  I have an uncle, his wife, daughter (27) and son (25)... I only invited the son
    Posted by RealHappyGal[/QUOTE]
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_invites-question?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:52bc30ba-7f61-4a26-9bd4-7e43d7a39fc8Post:5d6047c6-bc08-49ce-965d-dd8ccb968d09">Re: invites question</a>:
    [QUOTE]LOL, so i wont be wrong for doing that? I mean....whats the worst that can happen? theyll be mad at me from colorado? In Response to Re: invites question :
    Posted by soontobehasrouni[/QUOTE]

    Exactly. LOL. If you don't mind them being upset and possibly bad mouthing you to other family members, you should just invite Travis.
  • Now im wondering if i should even invite travis. When i go down there to see him he takes good care of me, but we dont call each other or anything and i havent seen him in almost 3 years. He doesnt come to cleveland...i always go to see him in nashville, which is fine cuz nashville is fun and cleveland sucks. He would be the only person from my moms side of the family id invite besides my mom. maybe i should skip him and just send an announcement.

    this is so hard!!!

    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_invites-question?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:52bc30ba-7f61-4a26-9bd4-7e43d7a39fc8Post:d4f6c0a6-4cdb-45ff-a73b-326492919c26">Re: invites question</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: invites question : Exactly. LOL. If you don't mind them being upset and possibly bad mouthing you to other family members, you should just invite Travis.
    Posted by saharnshard[/QUOTE]
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