1st let me ask a question...Why is it that when you call ya girls (who are mesirable in their own relationships) just to vent or get a different perspective about something thats going on in your relationship they are all ears and just eating up the drama but when you happy and everything is going good and you want to talk about the good stuff the sending you straight to VM or not returning txt ?
So just about a month ago. I made an appt for them to go get fitted for their dresses and everybody confirmed that the day and time was good. Then on that day they all had something come up except MOH. Ok life happens..I get that. They all called and txt saying Im go this week..ima go next week. blah blah blah. I txted them Thursday and said With the holidays coming up I want you girls to try and get in to get yall dresses so yall wont have to worry about it. Its Monday and not a word I have heard from the.
I have told them several times if being in the wedding is something you cant handle or just dont want to do just let me know. I dont want to put any type of strains on yall. They all said no, girl gone, we in the wedding and blah blah blah.
BM #1 she is having issues with her BD which he is a groomsmen and she doesn want to walk down the aisle with him..ok we can fix that
BM#2 she is having realtionship issues and dont know if she coming or going
BM#3 she just got a bunch of issues going in general.
I realize that nobody will be as happy as you are about getting married and that it seems your relationship is going better when there's isnt. But rather Im going thru some bad times I am genuinely happy when they are going thru good times.
For instants..I told BM#1 not to date GM#1 I gave her his warning signs, side effects or whatever and she just had to talk to him. Now they over there fighting, arguing and whatever else. uggghhh ! Lawd help me
ok rant over !