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Just not having a good couple of weeks

Hey Ladies,

Just needed to vent. Im having a rough couple of weeks and am just so tired, and discouraged. To make matters worse, i took a test for my job and failed both times so now i am on desk duty and can't hit the streets. I just feel so discouraged about everything. I just  need a break, i can't focus on my wedding until i pass this test and its just starting to weigh on me...... Cry

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    edited December 2011
    Sending knottie vibes your way. I'm sure things will get much better for you. Maybe you should take a couple days to relax, so you can mentally prepare for your test and everything else will fall into place.
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    edited December 2011

    Sending positive vibes your way.  Hoping things improve for you.

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    edited December 2011
    Awww.... Praying that you past your exam at work and that things get better in general!
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    edited December 2011
    Definitely sending knottie vibes your way... But if you have the time - I would seriously take a break from wedding planning for a little bit and concentrate/study for your job test.  As important as our weddings are to us - we need our jobs.  Without our jobs most of us wouldn't be having a wedding.  Our wedding is a day and our jobs is our health insurance, mortgage, food, etc...
    GL - try to not stress.
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    edited December 2011
    Awww as the pp's have said just take a couple of days to revamp. Its difficult to focus on taking test and planning a wedding. Something has to take a back seat for a second. Your testing right now is the most important thing because it involves your livelihood (i.e your job). The wedding won't be right if your mind isnt right to focus on doing what you need to do to pay for the wedding. so just take a moment and revamp, collect your thoughts and tackle that test. The wedding will fall right into place trust me. I will keep you in prayer. Good Luck.
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    edited December 2011

    Sending Positive Knottie Vibes your way. Things will get better soon.
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto all of the pps. What type of test is this? Anything that we can help with? I will keep you lifted in prayer. All things according to His good and perfect plan...
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies,  apperciate all your luv, support and words of kindness. I have decided to just focus on the test and nothing else at this moment. Its a firearms qual that we have to pass every 3 months
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    edited December 2011

    SENDING YOU MORE KNOTTIE VIDES....IT WILL GET BETTER I PROMISE, PLUS WE ARE ALL PRAYING FOR YOU!!!!

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    edited December 2011
    Sending Knottie Vibes!!!!  Best of luck to you on the exam.
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    edited December 2011
    AWWW sweetie, sorry this is happening :(
    Like pp noted, take a few days to relax. Give a little prayer and let go.
    After that, focus on your test and pick up wedding planning after a few weeks (you can afford it)

    It will be ok. Hang in there

    edit: oh, you are in Philly! Do you want me to take you out for drinks?
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    edited December 2011
    hey honey, thanks for the kind words. Sure, lets set up a date. what happened to the philly gtg?
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    edited December 2011
    thanks ladies
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